[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago

I sokong this idea.

Doesn't have to be lunch. Could be a post-work outing with another one or two colleagues who are good at breaking the ice and knows the agenda.

And then ditch F31 and M28 halfway.

[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago

There could be minimal screening for age range and other basic criteria, but speed dating is just giving people a limited amount of time to swap vibes with another person before they decide if they would like to see the other person again. For matchmaking, I expect a more thorough screening.

But your experience sounds rather dodgy, like she was screening for people who have the money.

[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago

OMG yes, Sima Aunty is so entertaining. I can't wait for the next season.

Jewish Matchmaking was a bit hard to get into for some reason, but I gave it another go recently and finished it.

[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago

3 days from Lawas to Kuching is possible but knowing the road condition it won’t be fun.

The route we took was fine. Probably the most unusual part for me was having the VIP escort the entire way. That said, there were long stretches of roads where we won't see any civilisation for hours. I've gone to Ulu Pelagus via timber roads and THAT was a ride.

That aside, how are Sarawakians feeling about 60 years of independence?

Macam biasa jer. Just stay away from the city centre unless you want to be part of the ~~jam~~ festivities. 😏

[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago
[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This is an exceptionally long road trip. I was on a similar one some years ago but it was about 10 days. It took about 3 days to drive from one end of Sarawak to the other at a minimum speed of 100km/hr, stopping for no red lights (got police outriders). And double the time if you make courtesy call stops.

Once in a lifetime adventure because I 11/10 will not do again. 😂

[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I cant find the photos anymore, but I once went to a masquerade dinner wearing a Cyclops mask - similar to this but it ends under the nose. I bought it in KL during Halloween season from one of those popular shops selling these kinds of things. It was surprisingly good quality. I even stuck false eyelashes over the one eye. All night long, people were asking me if I could see through that mask and the answer is yes. My glasses even fit under it. I still miss it.

[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago

Sounds like fun. If they don't specify what kind of mask to wear, get the weirdest one you can find.

[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago

I just finished Bangkit by Appy Mohd Hapizan, a Fixi Novel Sarawak 2016 contest winner. It honestly took a long time, and this was my second try.

The cool thing about it is that the dialogue is in Bahasa Sarawak. I'm torn about the use of real world places (actual business were used as a setting and not shown in a negative light); it helps a Kuching resident picture exactly where the story takes place. Even mentions the multiple roundabouts and the notorious traffic jam heading to Samarahan (most of the roundabouts no longer exist as of this year).

Interesting use of popular local folklore in the plot, although I felt that the book could have started at the 2/3 point of the novel and expanded on the alternate universe a little.

Not sure what my next read is going to be yet. I just scored a luxury edition of 'X: The Erotic Treasury" edited by Susie Bright and it's lying around within arms reach because I can't get over how beautiful the edition is.

[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago

The consolation is that monyet.cc is a small local standalone instance who happens to be using Lemmy, and not completely dependent on one main site to exist. I don't think anyone would enjoy my deleted posts so far. They're all salah format.

[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago

Hello, I am auntie.

[-] Tarlia 2 points 1 year ago

Forward it to your superior and cuci tangan.

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