[-] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

*woke up in the name that I wore last night

to the sound of an empty bed*

[-] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Being ghosted once by someone you trust will genuinely mess with your head for years

But! I made a sandwich and ate it by the river today. Yummy stuff

[-] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

Oh I totally relate. I love hugs, but am not sure when to do them

[-] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 28 points 2 months ago

I struggle with this sort of thing myself. It's like I'll see someone and find them so instantly attractive that I lock up and don't know how to proceed socially. I usually end up feeling guilty, like I'm staring too much. I felt like it was a male gaze thing for the longest time.

For me some of it is envy vs. attraction, am I into them or do I want to look like them? I'm not always sure, and it could be both or neither. I'm attracted to guys, but women catch my eye more.

I've lost my own point! In any case, whoever experiences this, I sympathize, because I am still trying to understand my own tendencies to be awkward around the beautiful people

[-] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago

She's not a girl

who misses much

dudududududooo

oh yeah

[-] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I get the impression that most people don't get caught in moral quandaries that cause them to retreat from the world in a state of emotional overwhelm

But I do get caught in this assumption that if I explain myself perfectly then it'll click and somebody will see me as I truly am

I also don't get how people ask questions without being scared

[-] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago

I don't understand why I am sweating through every piece of clothing just enough to leave ugly stains. We simply do not have the science to answer such a thing.

It's very annoying though. Nobody else looks sweaty 😐

[-] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago

Went to my high school 10 year after a lot of deliberation. It ended up being okay, I talked to people for a few hours!I wasn't super close with my high school friends, but it is nice to get together.

Once every 10 years is fine, though, and I don't feel obligated to show up to 20.

[-] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

Listen, in this house we trust Snoopy. We believe in Snoopy

[-] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

I get so overwhelmed.

I don't know if I believe that people can keep themselves organized. It genuinely seems impossible without a second person aware to be aware of me and cognizant of my issues and habits.

Like, every time a situation happens I just have to fucking figure it out. I don't have that best friend who will listen no matter what and always knows what to say.

Tbh I kind of assume that everyone else does have someone, and I missed the Friend Deadline so that's why nobody chooses me

[-] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago

Trogdor, Computer Virus.

Also, "A One that is not cold is scarcely a One at all"

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