[-] emma@beehaw.org 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Jewish schools in Europe are closed today. Synagogues and other places where Jews gather have been evaluating the risk they face and acting as they need to. Some might say that the claims Hamas has called for a "Day of Rage" today are internet rumours but we have to take them seriously because the consequences of failing to are so severe.

There will be calls for jihad against Jews. There always are. As emboldened as militants and wanna-bes are by Hamas', as they see it, success in killing Jews (and yes, I chose that designation specifically and intentionally) last weekend, it won't be different now. There have been and will be calls for jihad against us.

When Palestine attacks Israel, antisemitic violence around the world increases. When Israel attacks Palestine, antisemitic violence around the world increases. This is what diaspora Jews live with.

Bomb threats on diaspora Jewish organisations started last Saturday. Diaspora Jews have been on high alert all week.

The majority of people at those demonstrations will be peaceful. But some won't. Some will use the gatherings to foment violence against diaspora Jews. There's no right answer in this. If you're affected and chaffing at the denial of your right to shout in numbers, please consider that this ban will very likely save lives, especially in France. Please don't dismiss this just because those lives are diaspora Jews and you don't much care about us.

Edit: Notices the number of people who have convinced themselves that putting French Jews in danger is alright, cause you know, Palestine. Terror attacks against Jews in France is a thing, you know. Done in the name of freeing Palestine, as if French Jews had the power to change anything in another country.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 20 points 1 year ago

Israel unilaterally withdrew from Gaza in 2005. Olmert was working on a plan to withdraw from West Bank next.

If militant Palestinian leadership were willing to live in peace with Israel there would be peace. They've refused so many opportunities to become their own independent state because it requires allowing Israel to also exist in peace.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 14 points 1 year ago

This just happened. It's far too early to do more than speculate.

Like we can also connect dots from known things like FBI agents being killed because Trump leaked documents, his connections with Russia directly and thus Iran, to the possibility that information also leaked which compromised agents acting on Israel's behalf within Gaza. To be clear, this is also speculation.

But yeah, we can create all sorts of scenarios based on bits of information and our biases and ways of looking at the world. We'll never know everything which factored in.

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/politics@beehaw.org

Thought this might be of interest to some of the readers of this section. It asks questions for which there are no clear answers around issues of acting for change. It brings in disability & employment, discrimination against women and LGBTQ+ (screenwriter/director is a trans woman), art as a means of healing and of challenging conventions of beauty, loss, privilege, corruption and the things those who've been corrupted do to keep themselves in power and how they continue to get away with it, and the importance of working together. There's a pivotal scene nearing the end showing what people can do that's based on a real event in Thailand.

It's intelligent, articulate and powerful.

Not Me, 14 episodes 45 minutes each. Thai series are usually uploaded in 4 bits per episode, which confuses people at first. You'll get the hang of it soon enough. Available free to watch with English and other language subtitles on GMMTV's official youtube channel.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 12 points 1 year ago

You know guys, you don't have to actually outdo the UK for unhinged politics. I mean, our lot just won't have that and things are bad enough here already.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by emma@beehaw.org to c/technology@beehaw.org

These and Instagram seem to be the main locii of conversation for a topic I'm interested in. Instagram is a no because Meta. Just trying to keep myself off of the big data mining sites and search results are a bit of a hot mess.

Edit: Please, no more splaining how there isn’t any privacy on the net. There’s what can be scraped, what can be gathered from cookies (which I’m as careful as I can be about), and there’s what we make it easy for corporations to collect by using their products. I’m asking about the latter for Discord and Tumblr. It’s not that I’m unaware of the general problem (otherwise I wouldn’t be asking), it’s just that I’m out of the loop on specifics for these sites.

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/kdramas

Just dropping this here even though the group's gone quiet in case someone's looking for more #kdrama. Free to watch on youtube from SBS World.

Down at the bottom is a very gentle, quiet masterpiece called Do You Like Brahms, which people seem to either find absorbing and real or incomprehensibly boring. If anyone wants to talk about it, or recommend another, I'll be happy to.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 27 points 1 year ago

The current climate of "discourse" in the US works against effective teaching. I do know what I'm talking about here; teaching emotionally charged subjects was my strength but it's nearly impossible to online these days.

I have no idea how you get out of this dynamic when it's become so deeply embedded in how things are done, just that for every person who manages to learn something amidst the shouting, another is driven further away from what you wish to teach. But this is where we are and what we have to work with.

This can be true along with the unfairness of putting the burden on the disadvantaged side. I don't know the answer. Perhaps there isn't one.

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/books@lemmy.ml

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/7269459

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/7269398

Writer George Penney (who also writes wonderful posts about house-sitting adventures with feline overlords in various countries and is an entertaining follow) just posted this on Mastodon:

"If you like the idea of a romcom centered around a geek bar featuring dnd, goths, furries, munches and drag queens, with a message that's even more relevant now than when I wrote it. My alter-ego Evie Snow has a book--"This Is Not A F*cking Romance"--out today for FREE in all stores (Yay!)"

https://books2read.com/u/mZKeQe

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/7269398

Writer George Penney (who also writes wonderful posts about house-sitting adventures with feline overlords in various countries and is an entertaining follow) just posted this on Mastodon:

"If you like the idea of a romcom centered around a geek bar featuring dnd, goths, furries, munches and drag queens, with a message that's even more relevant now than when I wrote it. My alter-ego Evie Snow has a book--"This Is Not A F*cking Romance"--out today for FREE in all stores (Yay!)"

https://books2read.com/u/mZKeQe

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/literature@beehaw.org

Writer George Penney (who also writes wonderful posts about house-sitting adventures with feline overlords in various countries and is an entertaining follow) just posted this on Mastodon:

"If you like the idea of a romcom centered around a geek bar featuring dnd, goths, furries, munches and drag queens, with a message that's even more relevant now than when I wrote it. My alter-ego Evie Snow has a book--"This Is Not A F*cking Romance"--out today for FREE in all stores (Yay!)"

https://books2read.com/u/mZKeQe

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by emma@beehaw.org to c/kdramas

I think you might enjoy this one @penangkia@monyet.cc Compact, 4 episodes, creepy AF but not too scary, supernatural.

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiZut8Wi_wAQzF2j4M082BitPdcOu8Vts

[-] emma@beehaw.org 15 points 1 year ago

So a protected category for women only, because of social factors rather than inherent physical differences.

This makes some sense to me based on my own experiences in other areas like mathematics and science competitions. The boys in my school who knew me were mostly alright but it was still a very strange environment to be a teenage girl in. I was always keenly aware of being an outsider. And it was so much worse in rooms full of strangers at competitions. Intimidating and overwhelming.

For all that I was consistently at or near the top in our school, I always fell at the outside competitions. Felt horrible too, that I was letting everyone down. I was too young to understand the sexism at play so I just beat myself up about it and stopped participating.

In general, I support protected categories for women. We haven't come anywhere near far enough in reducing sexism to make them unnecessary. I don't know if it's a big enough issue with trans women in competitive chess to make this sort of ruling. It might have the balance wrong. But it would be good if there was more understanding of what these kinds of environments can be like for cis girls and women.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My central and autonomic nervous systems. Mine are shite and have been since I was wee. Even a clean reinstall of the original operating system would likely help a ton, but if the open source community could go through the files and find the all the bugs, who knows what I could make of my life. At the very least I'd be able to work again.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 14 points 1 year ago

Has fond memories of the Yahoo Answers Etiquette section.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by emma@beehaw.org to c/technology@beehaw.org

This might not be the best place to ask this as you'll all be asking far more of your phones than I ever will, but I need to buy a mobile phone so friends can get a hold of me when we meet up in a different city next month. The battery on the mobile I bought when I moved two years ago won't take a charge now.

I'm mostly housebound because of chronic illness and my life is very lonely, so even when I am out it's not like anyone is trying to reach me. Home internet with a laptop and tablet serves 99.999% of my needs.

So I suppose the big criteria is that the bloody thing won't die when I don't manage to keep it charged.

EDIT: I bought a replacement battery for £17. It should be here end of the week. What I need is a grandkid who can just tell me those sorts of things. Anyone want to adopt me? 🙃

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

Just want to recommend this drama series from Thailand about gay men, relationships, found family, loss, vulnerability, letting go and moving on. They have their ups and downs and arguments but support each other through it all. It is beautiful in every way.

The name comes from the late night chicken-rice diner owned by Jim, who's struggling financially but does his best to take care of everyone, including raising his confused and rebelling teenage nephew on his own. Into his life comes cheeky Wen, who's complicated his own situation but is otherwise full of emotional intelligence.

One of the characters is deaf and doesn't speak. He and the nephew have their own distinct but integrated story line. Two young men helping each other grow into maturity.

All of the characters are genuinely good guys. Masculinity as complex, often vulnerable, and thoroughly non-toxic.

It's on GMMTV's youtube (or your favourite non-tracking alternative front-end) channel. Playlist on the link.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 40 points 1 year ago

Ad blockers are my best disability accommodation. The things they do with ads to capture attention f with my brain. I'm really going to struggle if this happens. And I'm dependent on the internet for so many things, from groceries to prescriptions to people.

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Moonlight Chicken, Thai (piped.simpleprivacy.fr)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by emma@beehaw.org to c/kdramas

It is so good. Gentle, warm, visually beautiful, so much heart, and very real.

Edit: Finished it last night and it's ruined me for anything else right now. Relationships amongst gay men, loss, letting go and moving on. A lot of depth and emotional intelligence. One for the older folks who've been through the ringer and have the scars.

(Link to the playlist is via a privacy-orientated alternative front end to YT. Or you can just search for it on YT if you prefer.)

[-] emma@beehaw.org 32 points 1 year ago

Something with environmentalist and sustainability goals and principles rather than forms of destruction. I don't want to kill things or chop down trees or blow stuff up. The world is difficult and I am tired.

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/fantasy@lemmy.ml

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/1062613

Masha du Toit is celebrating the release of their books on 7 new platforms by making them free until 31st July (except on Amazon because Amazon has other ideas). Sci-fi and fantasy, LGBTQ.

Spread the word :)

To start with, Masha recommends "The Babylon Eye", "We Broke the Moon" (YA drama), or "Ray and the Cat Thing" (quite light).

Post on Mastodon: https://mefi.social/@Zumbador/110699839834664849

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submitted 1 year ago by emma@beehaw.org to c/literature@beehaw.org

Masha du Toit is celebrating the release of their books on 7 new platforms by making them free until 31st July (except on Amazon because Amazon has other ideas). Sci-fi and fantasy, LGBTQ.

Spread the word :)

To start with, Masha recommends "The Babylon Eye", "We Broke the Moon" (YA drama), or "Ray and the Cat Thing" (quite light).

Post on Mastodon: https://mefi.social/@Zumbador/110699839834664849

[-] emma@beehaw.org 18 points 1 year ago

I have photosensitivity. I need to get animated emojis off my screen as quickly as possible since they bring me closer to my seizure threshold.
Think of it like a cup. Skimming quickly past a few animated emojis won't fill the cup on their own, but if it's already full from other things, even that little bit is a risk for it spilling over into a seizure. If I were to try to read a lengthy post with animated emojis, forget it.
Laugh at me if it makes you feel superior. You probably are.

[-] emma@beehaw.org 14 points 1 year ago

I'm really sorry you're going through this. Much sympathy for trying to juggle this.

You've come out to your mum. Take a step back and appreciate that you did this. You found the strength to do it and you've done it. Take another moment to stay with this thought. Congratulations. Well done. You did it.

How she deals with it now is a her-thing. How your other people deal with it will be them-things. Just like your mum's reaction says more about her than it does about you, your mum's reaction also says more about her than how your other people will react.

Since her dad is a really vocal ally, you could try approaching him with a request for his help. Something like "Grandpa, I need your help. I told Mum I'm gay and she said I'm too young to know." This will hopefully put him in ally mode, rather than worried parent scared of what you'll face in this difficult world, and it would provide him with a useful course of action. People tend to like useful courses of action.

Does this sound like a good enough plan? I have life and youth work experience but you know your people best.

Whatever you choose to do, we're all here to support you as you find your way.

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