My partner wrote a couple of hardboiled PI novels about shady people doing shady shit.

Yeah, that's fair. And boomalope farming is certainly... exciting... so it gets very interesting with a large farm.

I'm currently living in a slightly smaller house that's valued at 250k. The roof leaks and the porch is falling apart, but the town has doubled in size since COVID, and so has the cost of housing.

I don’t think there’s a way to keep the muscles tense subconsciously

Part of 'better posture' is relying on your core muscles for stability instead of your back muscles, and that's the thing that keeps fucking with me. I overly rely on my back to keep me upright, and I have a hard time keeping my core engaged like that too. From what I've been told, it's a practice thing and I just don't do it enough for them to stay engaged without thinking about it.

The office chair is providing something called 'lumbar support' if you want a search term, and some people do have a bigger curve there than others. I'm proportionally short, so I have to move the cushion around until it hits the sweet spot and isn't uncomfortable. Slouching will also make your lumbar curve flatten out, so that could be it. I think it's just a matter of trying different things and seeing what works best for you, it's not one-size-fits-all.

Okay, ty

I'm just confused because somebody said "it's not important he was a gardner, it's important that he's unqualified", and you jumped in with a "I disagree, its important he's not qualified" and I'm just lost.

Like, are you saying its important to focus on his lack of qualifications, or are you saying you disagree with that?

I'm assuming that's a typo, and you don't really think every job has benefits.

On the other hand, I really do wonder how many of those 300m views were also not human views.

Because they need to sell papers?

What makes it so bad?

I bet they were Blue Orchard Bees

I have more money than she does.

Spoiler, that means you're the one that's out of touch here.