[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago

John Oliver did a show on this recently, in summary: "not all AI is spam, but all spam is AI". My take, legitimate accounts with a long history are cheap to generate, they're a great purchase to help spread bad faith disinformation and look legit. It's a business model.

[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

New father here as well. Let me start by saying, please ignore any negative comments, they are shitty or non-parents. I see some terrible responses here.

Here's what I see: a responsible kickass father is owning up to this huge lifestyle change, giving 110% to his wife and son, doing a perfect job emotionally and physically - service with everything but the smile. A mom going through post-partum depression, which is not only normal, it's actually abnormal not to. You're also going through something like "post-partum depression", which is also not your fault at all and totally normal. Seek help for yourself too, and remember this will all pass. You need support from your wife as well - and sometimes giving support is the greatest way to feel acknowledged, you may be doing her a favor to dump on her (and yes, I know your time to converse is like minutes per day). You're in the hardest phase and we all feel exactly the same way. It gets so much easier so quickly.

As for the sounds, I'm very, very sensitive to crying so I suggest ear protection like over-ear headset + earplugs or ear pods with white noise playing. Trust me, you don't need to hear the crying to be a responsive parent. I use physical cues like vibration, facial expressions, physical movement, etc like a deaf parent, and I use and audio monitor too to physically see the sounds. This makes me 1000x more functional and responsive.

As for not feeling the "connection" (yet!), that is textbook post-partum and again, super normal. Your guilt/anger/depression at lacking that connection, feeling lonely and unsupported - these are textbook normal things. Newborn parenting is fucking hard. In pre-history infant mortality was crazy and there was 10 adults per newborn, we're not meant to do any of this. If you exit this with 30 fingers and toes you're smashing it. I think in time you'll be able to enjoy it once you are sleeping, eating, and not completely overwhelmed. It could be years, but you know that. In the mean time, wish you (and I) luck to surviving...

[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago

Situation: There are 15 competing political parties

[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

Hey I'm sure there's plenty of 34 and 12 year olds that do have a healthy relationship, you're just cherry picking the bad one here.

/s /s /s

[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago

Sounds like it's perfectly accomplishing Google's goal to disinform. I suspect it will get more clever at sounding correct over time too.

[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You don't have to be into "water" to hate the state of being thirsty. We can all feel parched and frustrated when we don't drink it, don't pay our water bill, or eat a cup of salt every day.

[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago

That’s the Washington Post.

[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago

Then you're lucky they had the freedom to donate their time like that.

[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)
[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago

I'm not saying there's a lot, just a lot more than Reddit.

[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago

Speaking of disinformation, here's the underlying article: https://www.newsguardrealitycheck.com/p/one-third-of-americans-believe-russian-disinformation-yougov-survey-finds. In case you want to skip Forbes.

[-] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Now try this: mass edit all of your comments to be that post and watch how quickly you get banned from every subreddit, no appeal.

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