See my response below to Captain Aggravated about how dilute those large stars are.
It's an interesting question whether anybody would actually feel spaghettification 😁 I actually don't know. You can use physics to calculate the proper time derivative of the tidal forces, but you need biology to define the start (and end...) of the process. My intuition says that it probably happens too fast, so once the tidal forces are strong enough to be perceptible, they grow strong enough to rip you apart before you realize (again, just a hunch).
Some natural cushioning is needed to appreciate the comfort of the floor, I imagine. I'm too boney for that.