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Ok, clearly the joke isn't aimed at me, and I get the "use your words part" that's pretty funny. But I don't get the "I don't speak bottom"
"bottom" as in "person who receives penetration during sex"
Ok that makes sense, but opens up more questions.
Is blonde hair using it to insult brown hair? Is blonde hair communicating the desire to penetrate brown hair? Is brown hair actually a bottom? How does blonde hair actually penetrate brown hair, if at first glance blonde is a woman? Is this a BDSM thing?
I feel so out of the loop
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Possibly, but sounds more like a statement of fact to me. Probably not but who knows.Likely, you saw the 🥺. Pegging, or just having a penis. Not necessarily.
There are personality stereotypes associated with topping (giving) and bottoming (receiving) during sex. The stereotype is typically that tops are more dominant, sometimes masc, and bottoms are submissive, flustered messes. Doesn't always pan out that way in real life of course