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I used to. Once my dad died my family pretty much unraveled and they're all reactionary morons nowadays. It was a huge shock seeing how the patriarchy truly operates in america. Like my mom and two brothers became emotionally 10 years old once he was gone. That was seven years ago and our current relationship is so foreign from my upbringing.
It's funny you mention that. My siblings and I were pretty close growing up, even well into our late 20s. As we hit our 30s, it all kind of fractured apart. We still function, but we all also have very different independent lives now. It's a bit different
My bros are 6 and 9 years older so I was essentially an only child. We didn't become close till I was a young adult and started smoking weed. It was a cool 10 year run.