I have over a decade of experience as well. Nobody in my small personal "network" knows anyone that's hiring right now (I hate the fakeness of networking for networking sake, and am not very social, so I don't have much of a network). I've applied to hundreds of job postings over 6 months, interviewed with maybe 6 companies, and rejected usually just because they were also interviewing 10-20 people for the same role, and another person had slightly more experience with a specific part of their stack, or they just liked another person more for whatever reason. I believe all remote job postings get 1000s of applicants, and every one local to me get 100s.

It all kind of reminds me of when I tried using online dating apps, lol.