When your comment gets removed, you can go to https://hexbear.net/modlog and see the comment itself as well as the reason it was removed (usually). Same thing for post removals and bans.

As others have already informed you, saying "some dem ____" is indeed misogynistic. If you aren't misogynistic or don't consider yourself as such, please think about why that language is and commit to not using it in the future. As for the rest of your comment, I think everyone here is in agreement with.