I was talking to a female friend and young Arnold Schwarzenegger came up on conversation. I pulled up a picture of him and spent a long time looking at it. Then said "I am trying to decide if he is attractive.
I know for me women who are fit and toned, attractive. Once a woman is muscular, attractive falls off a cliff. Probably because they start looking like a man.
The Arnold picture
Edit yes I am a guy
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Speak for yourself
- A lesbian
Hum.. I was. You will notice that the first word in that quote is "I"
There. I have removed the context from your quote and you find yourself on the defensive once again. Have at you!
What are you even trying to achieve here?
Partially poking at OP’s assailer. Partially showing why OP’s message could be read the way it [seemingly] was. It’s really quite a silly thread.
As a fellow lesbian, there is definitely a cliff, but it’s post karlach. Personally the older I get the more I love a mom bod, but a jocky herbo type? Yeah I’m down. But once you get into bodybuilder levels yeah no. Though as I say this, it’s not the muscle, it’s the contrast of high muscle with low body fat. Because like, yeah powerlifters can get it, but when you start looking like Arnold with tits, nah.
Oh Karlach can for sure hellish rebuke me all she wants
I’m more of a shadowheart girl, but yeah Karla h absolutely can get it. I’m not saying I’m not into muscular women with anger issues lol.
Speak for yourself.
- A dude