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I mean, could you imagine???

my whole life I thought I was only attracted to women, turns out I'm attracted to anyone who's pretty

what a sigh of relief

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[-] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 34 points 5 months ago

the older i get the more i realize that if i was single id date just about anyone if i made the right emotional connection with them

the rest is just rubbing skin and you can figure out how to do that in ways you both like

not sure what orientation that is and dont really care life is too short

[-] Llituro@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago

That sounds like being pan, or like a secret new type of ace you just unlocked. Not that it matters.

[-] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 5 points 5 months ago

sure i mean what matters most to me is the emotional connection and stuff

all im saying is that were i on the scene for a partner my options would be open

the older you get the more you dont give a fuck about a ton of stuff in life trust

[-] Angel@hexbear.net 2 points 5 months ago

I consider myself demi and pan, and what they're saying is very much relatable with how I feel.

[-] Hestia@hexbear.net 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I am also pansexual. I mean... hot damn, look at this guy.

[-] Angel@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

Relevant maymay:

[-] AlicePraxis@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

I've definitely broadened my horizons to the types of people I consider attractive as I've gotten older, not just in terms of gender but body type etc.

still not really into manly men but idk maybe give it a few years lol

[-] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 3 points 5 months ago

same i dont think ive ever felt any real romantic attraction to a big hairy guy but then again ive been involved in a monogamous relationship for almost 20 years now so its not like i spent a ton of time in scenarios where i was around guys like that trying to rizz me up or whatever

im generally attracted to the feminine in a traditional way (my love has curves and all that) but i can see the beauty in almost all people so i think were i single id be out there just leaving the door ajar in my heart for whatever came my way and felt right and i think the world is better the more of us can do that

realizing the worst thing that could happen is you figure out its not for you and then just move on is liberating not just in love but in a lot of other things in life too

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