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I'd like to thank the femboy community for proving that I'm not straight (hexbear.net)

submitted 10 months ago by AlicePraxis@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

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I mean, could you imagine???

my whole life I thought I was only attracted to women, turns out I'm attracted to anyone who's pretty

what a sigh of relief

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[-] AlicePraxis@hexbear.net 36 points 10 months ago

though I'm also NB/agender so idk if "straight" was even an option anyway? but I look like a guy so being into women still felt kinda straight

who cares tho gender is fake, if you cute you cute

[-] kristina@hexbear.net 14 points 10 months ago

You're gaight

[-] CoolerOpposide@hexbear.net 34 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Posting on Hexbear like

[-] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 34 points 10 months ago

the older i get the more i realize that if i was single id date just about anyone if i made the right emotional connection with them

the rest is just rubbing skin and you can figure out how to do that in ways you both like

not sure what orientation that is and dont really care life is too short

[-] Llituro@hexbear.net 9 points 10 months ago

That sounds like being pan, or like a secret new type of ace you just unlocked. Not that it matters.

[-] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 5 points 10 months ago

sure i mean what matters most to me is the emotional connection and stuff

all im saying is that were i on the scene for a partner my options would be open

the older you get the more you dont give a fuck about a ton of stuff in life trust

[-] Angel@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago

I consider myself demi and pan, and what they're saying is very much relatable with how I feel.

[-] Hestia@hexbear.net 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I am also pansexual. I mean... hot damn, look at this guy.

[-] Angel@hexbear.net 7 points 10 months ago

Relevant maymay:

[-] AlicePraxis@hexbear.net 7 points 10 months ago

I've definitely broadened my horizons to the types of people I consider attractive as I've gotten older, not just in terms of gender but body type etc.

still not really into manly men but idk maybe give it a few years lol

[-] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 3 points 10 months ago

same i dont think ive ever felt any real romantic attraction to a big hairy guy but then again ive been involved in a monogamous relationship for almost 20 years now so its not like i spent a ton of time in scenarios where i was around guys like that trying to rizz me up or whatever

im generally attracted to the feminine in a traditional way (my love has curves and all that) but i can see the beauty in almost all people so i think were i single id be out there just leaving the door ajar in my heart for whatever came my way and felt right and i think the world is better the more of us can do that

realizing the worst thing that could happen is you figure out its not for you and then just move on is liberating not just in love but in a lot of other things in life too