Hot take: If it's acceptable for people to reuse the same strap for multiple partners, it should also be acceptable to have a communal house dildo (hexbear.net)

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[-] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 28 points 1 month ago

Anything that needs to be cleaned will never be workable communal house property.

[-] Breath_Of_The_Snake@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Dishes and utensils aren’t communal?

Jokes aside, if it can transmit bodily fluids it shouldn’t be communal absent ~~absurd~~ difficult to meet cleanliness standards.

Disclaimer: if everyone is cool with it literally any standard of cleanliness works (absent pressure against those who wouldn’t otherwise be).

[-] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago

I've lived with people that for sure could not be trusted to clean dishes or utensils

[-] velox_vulnus@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Lived with a roommate who has never changed his bedsheet in a year - it had holes because it was rotting from his sweat. He also never removed hair that clogged the bathroom floor when he used it. He also had a punchable-face attitude, so there's that too. Absolutely disgusting.

[-] bunnygirl@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

tbf if you put the dildo in the dishwasher after every use like utensils that'd be a decent cleanliness policy

[-] Breath_Of_The_Snake@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

Very true. Like, shouldn’t the criteria be A) removed what was put on it in the act B)kills any infection vectors that said things could possibly have? A solid dishwasher, or a person who is solid at washing, is more than capable of both.