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[-] Voroxpete@sh.itjust.works 51 points 10 months ago

As a bisexual guy, this is exactly why I mostly dated women.

[-] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 28 points 10 months ago

Hey! Bi cis male here, the few men I seem to go on dates with always seem to have some hangup. I'm not gay enough, I'm married to a women, hates vegans, hates trans people. It's really exhausting to the point that first dates feel like I'm interviewing them.

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 3 points 10 months ago

As a straight man I could say similar things about most of the women I've dated. It's not a men problem or a women problem, it's just how dating is. Nobody's perfect and it's hard to find someone that fits with you.

[-] KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 10 months ago

you mean to tell me that most people don't believe the majority of the things you do? That's weird.

[-] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 19 points 10 months ago

Men are hot, but I'm more pessimistic about finding a guy I'd want a relationship with than finding a girl. As a transfem, I'd have an easier time finding a guy, but a majority would probably be abusive or chasers. There might be fewer women, but it'd be safer(women are more likely to be progressive) and they'd be more into me as a person. It'd be harder to hookup, but easier to find a gf than bf.

Even transmascs would be better than cis dudes because they're almost certainly not bigoted chasers that were raised to see women as goals instead of people.

[-] Voroxpete@sh.itjust.works 16 points 10 months ago

My wife would agree I suspect. She's transfem, and basically considered herself a lesbian until she met me.

[-] nimpnin@sopuli.xyz 9 points 10 months ago

As a bisexual guy, this is not at all my experience with non-straight men. They seem to be mostly cool and well socialized.

[-] TayamExplorer@discuss.online -4 points 10 months ago

Wow! Sample size: 1. Sure showed them, buddy.

Clearly not bi, btw, you're a misandrist. Congratulations 🎉!

[-] A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

I've never seen someone so pissed off and offended over not getting any bussy lmao

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