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Yeah I know dating apps bad etc

I paid 17 dollars for the week pass allowing me unlimited likes 💀 of course because I’m desperate and they force you into that choice because using it for free you only get 5 free likes a day lmao. The problem is NOBODY fucking responds back to my messages, I’ve had 2 conversations out of 20 matches, one of the convos died after I asked them out, the other convo just ended abruptly for no apparent reason. It’s really demoralizing to say the least but I just don’t understand, if they don’t like me and accidentally sent a like they should just unmatch right away but they don’t.

The future is grim. How does anyone meet anyone anymore?

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[-] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 1 points 4 weeks ago

Lmao who needs cis girls anyway

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 1 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

real, though the cis lesbians in SF are wonderful tbh, the cis bi ones are all the chasers and queerphobic

[-] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 1 points 4 weeks ago

Veeeerrry interesting. Yeah I hear a similar thing from other places from my friends. I mean, cis lesbians here are cool too it's just I don't think I'm very seen as a woman so there's just no interest. I need to do voice training lol I'm pretty sure that's seriously hindering me at this point

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 1 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

oh yea, voice training is super important. I've jokingly asked a few lesbians if they wanted to hear my deep voice and they were just like please no I don't want to hear that

[-] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 2 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Yeah I just feel super aimless with voice training. I'm still not out at work so I just end up having to go back to the man voice for like 8 hours a day, and I have a bit of a mental breakdown when I hear my own voice so my voice training has been fruitless. On top of that I do have a naturally pretty masculine voice, it doesn't exist in the middle or anything where I just have to make a few adjustments. And the way I talk I think is pretty masculine.

However I finally got myself together and I have a consult for a voice coach this Friday so yeah. Hoping someone can help me with this

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