Getting matches on dating app Hinge but 98% of people don’t respond to messages (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 week ago by Beluga@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

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Yeah I know dating apps bad etc

I paid 17 dollars for the week pass allowing me unlimited likes 💀 of course because I’m desperate and they force you into that choice because using it for free you only get 5 free likes a day lmao. The problem is NOBODY fucking responds back to my messages, I’ve had 2 conversations out of 20 matches, one of the convos died after I asked them out, the other convo just ended abruptly for no apparent reason. It’s really demoralizing to say the least but I just don’t understand, if they don’t like me and accidentally sent a like they should just unmatch right away but they don’t.

The future is grim. How does anyone meet anyone anymore?

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[-] hogslayer@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago

Climbing gym or regular gym? Bouldering -> very social. Any other gym -> least social thing ever.

regular gym. why are they such un-social places? lol

[-] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 2 points 5 days ago

Idk. Like, I barely look at anyone else in a regular gym. Everyone around me I see is listening to music and stuff. It just a very solo kinda thing unless you're doing some group activity