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I was really in the ADHD assessment saying I had no family history of neurodivergence, knowing damn well my dad and one of my sisters have the exact same symptoms of me

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[-] eldavi@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 days ago

only a slim majority of the people who assessed me agreed that i'm on the spectrum and the dissenter likewise pointed at a lack of family history; somehow, she refused to believe that generations of entire families can have no medical history and refuse to see physicians of any kind.

i would later come to understand that she had a very privileged view that made it impossible to realize that poor people don't have general practitioners, much less any kind of therapist and her actions set me back by almost a decade and costed me my livelihood several times in that decade. both of the assessors since her have agreed that i'm on the spectrum.

the people assessing you are people like anyone else complete with their on prejudices and priorities and the same goes for family; most of mine refuse to believe in adhd or autism or even psycho therapy and they likewise point to a lack of history, ignoring that we're the first generation to even know what "general practitioner" means.

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