[-] oce@jlai.lu 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I sympathize with the feeling. I would say, don't take irreparable decisions in your current emotional state. Disconnect for a few days or a few weeks, spend time on what makes you happy. Then you can decide. If you come back, don't hesitate to block generously the toxic people, an entertainment forum is not worth arguing with randos at all.

Personally, I was close to quitting due to the toxicity from tankies and other far left populist demagogues. Then, I understood the pattern, blocked the tankie triad, any related user who leaked to other instances when they pop up and now my browsing is way more relaxing.

[-] oce@jlai.lu 18 points 2 days ago

It does hijack your cellular machinery to mine its own building instruction hashes, doesn't it?

[-] oce@jlai.lu 167 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Anon is a better than average journalist, crossed multiple opinions and sources before writing their clickbait article.

[-] oce@jlai.lu 11 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

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[-] oce@jlai.lu 1 points 4 days ago

I'm not from NA and I don't think that's specific to NA, I saw this in people from Western Europe, Northern Africa and Japan. Also whatever positive aspect of traditional culture there may be, everything seems to get crushed by the social media bulldozer consumeing hours a day from childhood.

[-] oce@jlai.lu 23 points 5 days ago

And it's free advertisment.

[-] oce@jlai.lu 2 points 5 days ago

Similar experience, but for me it's engineering company with only people with masters, vs sports association with full diversity of backgrounds.

[-] oce@jlai.lu 3 points 5 days ago

Agreed, masculists, especially the young ones, are mostly socially anxious and socially scared people who find shelter from their anxiety by oppressing another group. The solution is probably to work on this social anxiety from childhood.

[-] oce@jlai.lu 7 points 5 days ago

I don't deny that the current experience of life is different because of gender/sex. So I am rather talking about the target, a society without sexism.

Is it really so difficult to accept that men might find purpose or value that differs from women?

Yes, I am indeed questioning this point. Is this difference in the essence of the gender or is it a social construct?

For me, it's actually not hard to imagine that men and women could share the same distribution of purposes and values, if the environment in which they grew up supported it. The diversity would be based on the uniqueness of individuals with little to no influence from the gender.

I find it very oppressing to have the specific framework you mention associated to you because of your gender. What about transgender people or people who don't associate with a traditional gender?

[-] oce@jlai.lu 4 points 5 days ago

Any correlation with the people's socioeconomic background?

[-] oce@jlai.lu 19 points 5 days ago

Do we really need to make the framework different for male and female humans? Why not use one for humans and teach tolerance to difference in general? I don't think many of the issues we face will be solved if we keep two different frameworks.

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Je savais qu'il fallait faire attention à ne pas trop manger de soja, mais je ne pensais pas que tant de monde était proche de la dose qui présente un risque. Je me demande comment ça se passe dans les pays où le soja est partout dans la cuisine.

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From the article:

The “atmosphere in the Oval Office reminded us of that which we remember well from interrogations” by Poland’s communist secret services and regime courts, the signatories said.

“The prosecutors and the judges, working on behalf of the omnipotent Communist party police, also told us that they held all the cards, and we held none,” they said.

“We are shocked that you treated Volodymyr Zelenskyy in the same way,” they said.

The full letter machine translated from Polish:

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Dear Mr. President,

We watched the account of your conversation with Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky with horror and disgust. Your expectations regarding the expression of respect and gratitude for the material assistance provided by the United States to Ukraine, which is fighting against Russia, we consider offensive. Gratitude is owed to the heroic Ukrainian soldiers who are shedding blood in defense of the values of the free world. They have been dying on the front lines for over 11 years in the name of these values and the independence of their homeland, which has been attacked by Putin's Russia.

We do not understand how a leader of a country that is a symbol of the free world can fail to see this.

Our horror was also triggered by the fact that the atmosphere in the Oval Office during this conversation reminded us of what we remember well from interrogations by the Security Service and from courtrooms in communist courts. Prosecutors and judges, at the behest of the all-powerful communist political police, also explained to us that they held all the cards, while we held none. They demanded that we cease our activities, arguing that thousands of innocent people were suffering because of us. They deprived us of our freedom and civil rights because we refused to cooperate with the authorities and did not show them gratitude. We are shocked that you treated President Volodymyr Zelensky in a similar manner.

The history of the 20th century shows that every time the United States wanted to maintain distance from democratic values and its European allies, it ended up posing a threat to themselves. President Woodrow Wilson understood this when he decided to join the United States in World War I in 1917. President Franklin Delano Roosevelt understood this when, after the attack on Pearl Harbor in December 1941, he decided that the war in defense of America would be fought not only in the Pacific but also in Europe, in alliance with the countries attacked by the Third Reich.

We remember that without President Ronald Reagan and American financial engagement, it would not have been possible to bring about the collapse of the Soviet Union's empire. President Reagan was aware that millions of enslaved people were suffering in Soviet Russia and the countries it had conquered, including thousands of political prisoners who paid with their freedom for their sacrifice in defense of democratic values. His greatness lay, among other things, in the fact that he unhesitatingly called the USSR an 'Evil Empire' and waged a determined fight against it. We won, and a monument to President Ronald Reagan stands today in Warsaw opposite the US embassy.

Mr. President, material assistance—military and financial—cannot be an equivalent for the blood shed in the name of the independence and freedom of Ukraine, Europe, and the entire free world. Human life is priceless; its value cannot be measured in money. Gratitude is owed to those who make the sacrifice of blood and freedom. For us, the people of 'Solidarity,' former political prisoners of the communist regime serving Soviet Russia, this is obvious.

We appeal for the United States to fulfill the guarantees it provided along with Great Britain in the Budapest Memorandum of 1994, which explicitly stated the commitment to defend the inviolability of Ukraine's borders in exchange for its relinquishment of nuclear weapons. These guarantees are unconditional: there is not a word about treating such assistance as an economic exchange.

Lech Wałęsa, former political prisoner, leader of Solidarity, President of the Third Republic of Poland.


Signed by Wałęsa and more than 30 former Polish political prisoners held during the communist era.

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There's a constant influx of new communities with softcore sexualized characters, especially anime girls, that I could do without.
I don't mind anime and manga in general, so I would rather not block the instances that specialize in it, but blocking softcore communities one by one seems be a never ending task.
I also think it may be off-putting for new members.

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[-] oce@jlai.lu 286 points 5 months ago

slowly divert my work to different people in the company

So you've been promoted to a management position.

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