Despite what the internet would lead you to believe, body type is not directly correlated to being dominant or submissive. Neither does gender, sexual orientation, clothing or anything else on the surface. The type of person you are sexually, your preferences, your kinks, are only going to come out when you sit down and talk to your partner - or viewers - about it. Otherwise, its just folks making assumptions - and generally forcing standard hetero-normative gender roles into non-standard relationships or people. A big, bulky, tough guy can easily be submissive in bed, just as a soft-spoken, short man can be a cold dom. And the idea of a bottom dom would make some dude's brains explode. At the end, its about personality, not looks.

So the answer is, unfortunately, this isn't something that can be "fixed" because its not a personal problem. Its just people having an uneducated perspective of how sexual relations work.

I just don't think there's enough active userbase for that, and it really isn't something you can fix on the fly. The ratio of Like/Upvote > Share > Comment > Post is always an issue for online social spaces, its just that a few website got big enough to make it seem like its easy to get people to contribute.

The architecture of Lemmy is also a little bothersome at times, especially when it comes to displaying media and making gallery posts.

Probably one thing I'd like for LemmyNSFW to have is a Admin owned community for people to share communities and talk about merging, managing, sharing, etc. Something like https://lemmy.world/c/newcommunities but for our side of the pond, and now just for new but also talking about present communities and what can be done for them.

I don't use Rule34 due to how they're against using any trans-positive tag, but there aren't really many options available. e621 isn't much better, but at the very least it'll respect a DNP from artists that ask for it.

Shame because I'd happily contribute to an image gallery that isn't run by people who are still stuck in the early 2000s anime fan mentality.

I like to believe it is, I'd like to get crossposts on my communities (if they adhere to the guidelines, of course) and try to put an effort into crossposting for relevant communities that I know. I don't think its spam as long as you're not, like, cross posting a single image into 5+ communities every time.

Not everyone is constantly browsing Local, and even if they do, you might lose something here and there with the sheer volume of contributions. Cross posting to specific communities will highlight it to the people who are subscribed, and also help the administrators.

Culling out hate speech isn't censorship.

I'm not "willing" to do anything, it is a fact. You may as well argue about the origins of the Swastika or the Iron Cross. Pepe is a hate symbol, and while not everyone using it might be a nazi, they are using nazi imagery. The fact that "many people" aren't willing to drop it, despite its extensive, well documented use by extremists is a well made point, but not the one you think.

And there's no "overestimating" of nazis in the world. We live in a culture of white supremacy. There's no point in splitting hairs about how offensive or not a cartoon frog is. The easiest solution is to simply not use it.

Pepe has been a dogwhistle/symbol of hate for years already. Richard Spencer's comical punch in 2017 happened just moments after he was explaining why he wears a Pepe pin. The ADL has it officially registered as a hate symbol.

Maybe it has died down in recent years, but you not being aware of these - frankly, very clear cut - definitions doesn't make it ridiculous or inappropriate. Nazis take over symbols, that has been their modus operandi since their inception. None of this is new.

I'd recommend some googling about the subject.

Steam has had, for a long time already, a massive far-right community. Browse its communities and you'll see the most deranged racist, transphobic, homophobic posters. The entire SweetBaby harassment campaign started - and as far as I know, is still going - thanks to a huge Steam curator, and there are even more "Anti-Woke" groups explicitly dedicated to harassing minorities. Last year, Hogwarts Legacy had a intense campaign and won the Best Game on Steam Deck award due to the brigading of these "anti-woke" fans - and you most likely can still look into its community to witness their efforts - and there are still those on the Tabletop Simulator communities that are outspoken about the devs "bending the knee" by removing global chat from their game in an effort to reduce harassment against queer people.

Basically, its a cesspool of the worst gaming has to offer, but none of this affects Valve's bottom line, who continues their usual business practice: Don't interfere and do the minimum amount of work. Is it illegal? Perhaps not. But their inaction makes it clear that this is a safe spot for hateful conduct.

There are, in fact, Cowboy Bebop skins in Overwatch, but good eye

I will avoid any egg-related mentions, since I find those to be uncomfortable, and just say that while not feeling that when watching porn, I do enjoy ERP as a female character, as well as playing hentai games with female protagonists. Its an opportunity to be something that I'm not IRL and have different experiences. I don't see any difference on that than, say, playing as a fantasy or sci-fi species in a videogame for flavor.

I'm quite comfortable and happy with my own body, this is purely for erotic purposes and I wouldn't want to be a woman in any other situation.

Another foodstuff heist for the record, line it up with the classic

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Canadian_Maple_Syrup_Heist

The clear solution would be to give a trim to the general immediate area, a little bit of the stomach and thighs.

Though the transition won't look that harsh, at least not unless you shave and go fuck 5 minutes later. The next day stubble will already make the looks mesh a little.