I've been through this not too long ago, and it took me close to 2 years to get over her, but yeah, it does happened from time to time after the initial few months, stuff will suddenly flood back and i will feel so lonely and extremely depressed. It's almost 2 years now and i barely think of her, but the harm she caused will take a lot longer to heal up. Still lonely though.

But for your case, i believe you ditch him for a good reason, i know it will hurt because it's comfortable to stay and hold on than to have no one by your side, but sometime it's best to let go than to hold on, because there's no telling whether he will change. It take time to heal, a lot of time, just be kind to yourself.

You probably didn’t get over the person.. you could still be happy without your ex or anyone (in the future) for that matter.

And perhaps it’s worth thinking about why do you miss the person in the first place. Do you miss him because you feel lonely? Or do you miss him because you’re not as happy as you’ve hoped so you think about your previous fond memories?

What's a nyet? What are your dogs names? Can you share doggy pics? 😁

If t20 doesn't get multiple vote per person, what make it so special that unemployed have to get singled out in this case? Voting is a right, that person's logic is weird.

Beside, unemployed is not forever for majority of the people in that category.

Frankly, percentage of unemployed citizens is usually quite low to be able to sway election results.

Personally, unemployed people of all ages contribute to our society and nation in different ways that can impact it meaningfully.

may i ask, what sort of contribution do you think they could bring to the society?

Absolutely agree with your sentiment. There is a much wider array of labor than a simple JOB and furthermore the point of a country or nation isn't solely to make sure people are employed under capital.