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[-] remon@ani.social 34 points 1 week ago

Same as with every other social media ... the people.

[-] fossilesque@mander.xyz 4 points 1 week ago

I'm not your friend, buddy!

[-] remon@ani.social 5 points 1 week ago
[-] WILSOOON@programming.dev 2 points 1 week ago
[-] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 2 points 1 week ago

I'll be your pal

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[-] jet@hackertalks.com 20 points 1 week ago

Niche communities. Large spaces are built of small niche interest groups. The tooling around small spaces needs to be first class if we want the larger space to be healthy

[-] gigachad@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 week ago

lemmy.ml and its admins being the developers at the same time.

[-] PrettyFlyForAFatGuy@feddit.uk 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I don't think that in itself if the problem. anyone can host an instance. The problem is lemmy.ml being the apparent default instance, advertising itself as an instance for privacy and FOSS enthusiasts, and not mentioning seemingly anywhere in the description/rules that only red flavour authoritarian dogma is allowed in political discussion.

"America bad, therefore former 'communist' russia and current 'communist' china good."

Edit: it's not featured as prominently as it used to be on join-lemmy.org so things may be improving. they should still mention in the description that western viewpoints on many issues are not allowed due to "rule 1"

[-] nebulaone@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I realized .ml was fucking insane and delusional when they glorified Stalin and refused to recognize the atrocities he committed.

No matter what your political stance is, as soon as you deny negative facts and exclusively push the "positives" it becomes a problem and may radicalize you (if that isn't already the case).

What happened to nuanced moderate politics? It seems people unconditionally put the "left" or "right" label on themselves. And ironically these blind followers will have the audacity to call anyone close to the political center, or people who are honest with themselves, cowards.

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[-] SupraMario@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Lemmy.ml needs to be defederated from all other instances. It's literally an extremist instance of hate and bigotry.

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[-] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 16 points 1 week ago

It’s just as much a left-wing echo chamber as Truth Social is a right-wing one - and that’s a problem in both cases. Some might say it’s fine because we’re on the right side of history and they’re not, or something along those lines - but the people on Truth Social think the exact same thing. No one’s views ever change that way.

[-] 9point6@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The right wing instances are just defederated from this larger federated group because the people on them were unable to follow the rules of other instances. Repeatedly, they would throw tantrums and create loads of dupe accounts to spam shit when people downvoted their shitty views or their accounts got banned. If they were capable of behaving with civility and following the rules, they'd still be here.

No idea how active that corner of the Lemmyverse is these days, but they have repeatedly chosen to behave in a way that leaves instance administrators with little choice other than defederation.

[-] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago

There is also a dearth of cannibalistic viewpoints here. And Zoroastrians are woefully underrepresented.

I don't come here to change my views (though it happens from time to time), and neither do they. I'm not ignorant of their thoughts; I'm inundated with them every day. I don't need to interact with assholes here. I don't want to come here and watch people scream back and forth at each other, and I definitely am not interested in participating—there is a reason I've left other social media.

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[-] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I don't think there is such a thing as a left wing echo chamber. We bicker incessantly. The other day I was making a joke at the expense of the car-brain mentality and someone came at me for ableism.

I'm not mad at them, it's just illustrative of my point. We don't take shit from each other, and we take each other to task over jokes. The right will, meanwhile, forgive literal pedophilia, rape, and murder of each other. I'm sure as hell not saying we should, but we will never create an echo chamber as good as they do because of that.

[-] galoisghost@aussie.zone 3 points 1 week ago

The problem is the right no longer argue their points in good faith.

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[-] zaphod@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 week ago

I think the main problem is that there isn't much besides politics and memes. Most communities that aren't politics seem to devolve into meme communities.

[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 week ago

I feel like that's an issue that's exacerbated by the predominance of image posts over text posts, and text post only communities.

[-] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I'd much, much rather be in an echo chamber where BS is questioned and reality is not ignored than a conservative hellscape where basic facts of reality are ignored, like, "tons of CO2 in the atmosphere is totally fine, actually" or, "trans people are corrupting sports!".

Yea... fuck those at best extremely stupid people and at worst, vitriolic piles of trash.

[-] JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Agreed on all counts.

The real mystery to me is what value the echo-chamber residents get out of it. Why would someone join a group of people they already agree with, just to be told that their opinions are correct, and to shout down any interloper who contradict them? How is that not a boring waste of time? Is it that most people are insecure in their views and need validation, perhaps? It's a phenomenon I still don't understand.

[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 week ago

I find I don't agree with a lot of people, though there is at least a higher chance that someone, especially from my instance, will share my values and at least be willing to hear dissenting opinions without going right to insincere strawmaning.

[-] JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

To be clear, you join the echo chamber because you won't be judged there and also because you want to dissent from its party line?

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[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 16 points 1 week ago

Onboarding. I think it'll be better if people promoted individual instances instead of Lemmy as a whole. As a whole, it seems vague.

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[-] cm0002@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The lemmy.ml instance not being treated the same as the rest of the Triad in regards to defederation

Some highlights from the link:

"Don't worry guys, the Uyghur Genocide was REALLY just birth control! ~dessalines, .ml admin, dev https://lemmy.world/post/30580167

"See! nobody died IN Tiananmen Square, just AROUND it, so it doesn't count!!" ~ Davel, .ml admin https://lemmy.world/post/30673342

.ml admin, Nutomics continued transphobia https://lemmy.world/post/29222558

CW: Original transphobic Comment from Nutomic

"NK is actually good and anything counter to that is Western propaganda!" ~dessalines, .ml admin, dev https://lemmy.world/post/31595035

General negative sentiment to other instances who haven't "seen the way" yet ~davel, .ml admin https://lemmy.world/post/27426510

"If you don't support Russia then you just don't understand geopolitics" ~dessalines, .ml admin, dev https://lemmy.world/post/27352415

And a long list of bans/censorship and allowing the proliferation of known propaganda and misinformation outlets clearly demonstrating use of their instance and recognition to force a political narrative

[-] Mearuu@kbin.melroy.org 5 points 1 week ago

I am currently working on a report on vote manipulation and the early results are showing clear signs of the some most prolific .ml accounts participating in brigading and vote manipulation.

[-] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

I can't count the number of times I made a comment way deep in a chain that conflicts with .ml dogma, and after the first downvote, there are suddenly 5 more within minutes

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[-] ter_maxima@jlai.lu 11 points 1 week ago

Not enough people for even slightly niche communities. Wanna talk about smash brothers ? 732 people, only 2 posts in the last month.

This is why people still use reddit on the side.

[-] bampop@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

This is exactly why I don't use Reddit on the side. When I run out of content on Lemmy, there's no choice but to do something productive instead. Had to go 100% cold turkey on Reddit to make that work though.

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[-] 6nk06@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The lack of content compared to reddit. If you look at !learn_programming@programming.dev for example, there is only one post this week, and 4 posts this month. How is it that, with all the web developers and AI vibe coding shit, no one is actually asking questions?

When I was on reddit, I had to hide posts because there were 10 or 20 interesting questions every day.

[-] redsunrise@programming.dev 7 points 1 week ago

The lack of continuous and backlogged content. For some this is a benefit because it gives them a reason to stop scrolling, but for others who come here to look for answers, find entertainment, or anonymously voice their opinions, this can be something of a downside.

Of course this platform is as anonymous as you make it, but I've seen some people say they refrain from commenting more often because they don't want to be known as a regular, instead wanting to "blend in to the crowd" as one would on more populous sites like Reddit or Twitter.

[-] NonFamousHistorian@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

The same issue Bluesky and other app-killer platforms have/had at the start: momentum. Momentum explains everything else. If you leave out the vapid content on Reddit, it's still the premier place for asking questions and getting them answered by enthusiastic amateurs or actual experts in the field. The moment Lemmy gets the same quality tech support and DIY responses, it will have its place. Or, like with Bluesky, Reddit needs to become as alienating and disgusting as X became after the Elon takeover.

[-] myrmidex@belgae.social 3 points 1 week ago

That's the beauty about Lemmy, it's not too reliant on momentum as it doesn't need graphs to go up at all times. The fediverse will always be a refuge when other platforms crumble. We'll just have to be patient and make sure the platform and the communities are as good as they can be at that point in time.

[-] JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

This is how I see it too. Freedom from the toxic ad-supported business model is a slow-burning superpower.

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[-] FuckFascism@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

The tankies

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Smaller user base. It is both good and bad but the community for my city is dead (probably there were only like 8 of us on here).

Am old enough to know from experience that the early people on any platform are the computer geeks so expect the tech communities to thrive first - but as someone else said, music communities die, sports, arts, things that are pretty widely popular. Honestly happy with the slow and steady growth of the !cocktails@lemmy.world so if it's an indicator, the general interest people are joining just not quickly but some must be sticking. I would guess at some point it will be perfect then too big but who knows?

Personally I also miss the nonsexual nudes threads like nakedprogress and normalnudes. Again that's a lack of users issue, you need a lot of people willing to post, to have even a few willing to post nude.

[-] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Niche communities. Also, attempts at niche communities getting dogpiled by everyone else (no, “this administration” really doesn’t have anything to do with the pedestrianisation of Norwich city centre.)

[-] 9point6@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

User volume and diversity is probably the main thing right now.

We just need more people posing shit, the fact that one or two users can dominate my feed if they choose to is not ideal. (Though often I appreciate the content anyway)

The diversity aspect is around how we have a lot of people in a small handful of demographics on here. It's getting better every day, but the thing that made Reddit great before they ruined it was everything you could think of had a community of people posing stuff about it, doesn't matter how niche.

One leads to the other though, more users naturally will mean increasingly diverse interests in our userbase.

It's about time Reddit fucked something else up anyway, it's been a few months

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[-] reddig33@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It’s too difficult to block huge swaths of things you’re not interested in. Like sports, or memes, or music. You block one community and 99 more about the same subject appear in your feed.

Adding some sort of Usenet-style organization or sublemmy tagging might help.

[-] myrmidex@belgae.social 4 points 1 week ago

You could just use the Subscribe feed, no?

[-] somnuz@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago

for me, no option to follow posts / comments, mostly to see new comments / replies and create proper aggregation of responses, any opinion dynamics and so on — this makes everything very temporary / short lived

[-] Plesiohedron@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

the population is 99% children. Dumb, reactionary etc.

some of them are moderators

[-] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

We need more users, to do that we need more advertising.

I was waiting to leave reddit for like a year before i found out about lemmy.

There's no way the twitter clone Bluesky should have absorbed the fleeing reddit users instead of this space that functions just like reddit.

[-] sekxpistol@feddit.uk 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I know that Reddit doesn't outright ban Lemmy talk, but on my reddit profile, I updated it with my Lemmy username link. I got banned from reddit a couple of hours later. No reason given. And I hadn't made any recent posts. Ban reason was "violating rules." lol

[-] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I had accounts banned for no reason after recommending lemmy to people, or makikg a username with lemmy in it.

Pretty sure they have a filter setup that automatically bans you.

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[-] Libb@jlai.lu 2 points 1 week ago

The default home feed: out of the box, it puts too much shit in the face of newcomers.

Once filtered out, it's great but one must first learn to filter the noise out which, I'm pretty sure, is dissuasive to a lot of non-geek users like myself.

[-] HeyJoe@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

As everyone has pointed out, people and content. Its good in some ways since not every post is drowned out with one thousand replies nobody will ever see, but at the same time, you're not getting much of anything at all sometimes. Not even very niche ones either. Even groups that represent entire states has limited info or replies still. If it can grow to that size and see some more unique and local content more I think even that would be a much better place for it to be.

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[-] hexonxonx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Trying to be a Reddit clone.

Reddit was shit to begin with. It was a dumbed down forum site for people who found sites like Plastic or Kuro5hin too intimidating or complicated(!).

Slashdot-style upvoting would instantly solve a lot of "Reddit"-type problems, because instead of just good/bad, or like/dislike, the reason for the vote is noted, such as "insightful", "funny", etc., and you can then filter and sort comments much easier. Just filtering out "funny" comments saved soooooooo much time.

Another thing: Why don't creators of threads have the option to admin their own threads? It's their thread! It wouldn't be appropriate for discussion threads (for obvious reasons), but for interpersonal posts and questions, it makes perfect sense for the creator to be able to have control over what appears in the thread to keep it on topic and the trolls at bay. It's pretty rare to see a post where someone asks a question that doesn't quickly devolve into an offtopic mess, and the creator is usually attacked for trying to bring it back on topic. This has made Reddit useless for question-answering (and besides, the most upvoted answer is almost always wrong.)

Is the purpose of these forums to enable authentic conversation, or just to farm content regardless of quality (to be sold to AI companies, presumably)?

[-] JTskulk@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Repeated content. When I doomscroll I see the same posts I've already seen instead of less popular ones.

[-] JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

The downvote button. It's a hobby horse of mine. Slashdot got it right: if you're going to tell someone to shut up, there should be a small price to pay.

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[-] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

It's complicated. I've been here about a year and I'm still not sure how to use it properly.

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