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[-] Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 days ago

While I still like most of the music I did at age 14, I continue to find new music I like. I don't discard much. If I liked it at one point I usually still like it.

[-] hex@programming.dev 12 points 3 days ago

I listen to 100x more varied/different music than I used to listen to.

but I also listen to what I used to listen to.

[-] qyron@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 days ago

When I was 14, "Zombie", by the Cranberries, was the music of the year.

I still go back occasionally but there's a lot more to listen. And I've discovered other genres since then.

[-] CaptainBlagbird@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago
[-] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

It ain't me, sis/bro. I might occasionally find a song to loop for a while, but in general I hate when things play on repeat. Always searching for something new.

Heres some YouTube channels to find music on

Strange Music Inc
Epitaph Records
Spinnin' Records
Nuclear Blast Records
CloudKid
Fueled By Ramen
Metropolis Records
XKitoMusic
MrMoMMusic
MonstercatUncaged
Rock Montage

and if you don't have a YT Alternative who can play all uploads then here's an extension for it by Catbraaain, but you do have to navigate to the uploads tab to see it.

[-] Vespair@lemmy.zip 40 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I'll never understand this. I'm 40 and I'm still actively seeking out new music and listen to vastly more new releases than anything 5+ years old.

Of course I understand everyone has "their thing" and music happens to be my thing, so I understand the additional interest in my case, but the alternative just seems so damn boring to me...

[-] MadMadBunny@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 days ago

They’re just nostalgic.

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[-] AlexanderTheDead@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

This take is for people that primarily listen to pop music (of any genre, pop rock, pop punk. Stuff that is on the radio). Which is a huge amount of people. But it is unsurprising that on a niche community-based website like Lemmy, where a lot of people probably have an artistic tinge to them, that a bunch of you have a much more involved and active music discovery experience.

[-] OddMinus1@sh.itjust.works 19 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

14 year old me listened to a lot of heavy metal variations along with emo rock and that kind of jazz. Now, as a 34 year old man, I still occasionally enjoy some of that, but my music taste has developed and matured, so now I mostly listen to girly pop music.

[-] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 2 points 3 days ago

The metal head to swifty pipeline

[-] diptchip@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

A lot of people are happy enough inside their comfort zone, they're likely to die there. The people that say they haven't made good music since the XX's probably haven't spent much time searching for music they'd like.

[-] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Who are these people

Are we just posting screenshots now?

[-] 9point6@lemmy.world 34 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I listen to way more than when I was a teenager now. Probably not a genre out there now without something I appreciate in it.

I wasn't gonna listen to music that everyone around me said was rubbish, so I just stuck to the genres of my friend groups (first half of the 00s: so mostly indie, nu-metal and big beat/electrohouse/idm, which wasn't exactly leaving me to starve for stuff to listen to)

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[-] rumba@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 days ago
  1. I think it depends on the year. In my 14th year, there were relatively few bangers. There were a lot more ballads back then, and they've aged poorly.

  2. I predate digital music, I listened to the radio, but only had so many tapes, so I didn't get to hear what I wanted all the time. What I did get to hear where those ballads over and over.

  3. I only listened to rock and metal back then. I can now appreciate R&B and Country from back then, but I don't get nostalgic from it.

[-] sevan@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 days ago

Not even a little bit true for me. I listened to pretty much only country at 14 and I don't listen to any country now, not even the stuff I liked then. By 16 I had switched to mostly rock & alternative. I will still listen to that occasionally, mostly for nostalgia, but it isn't on any of my playlists. I suspect most everything on my regular playlists came out after I was 30, but it continues to shift forward over time. I suspect eventually most of my current playlist will age out too.

[-] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 days ago

This may be why my sister is into competitive band ‘music’ (I mean the sort schools do, with lots of brass and drums).

I just can’t fathom it. I worked in an instrument shop, and it all sounds like if a van plowed into our stock room to me.

[-] AltheaHunter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 days ago

What a boring life that would be, damn.

[-] Etterra@discuss.online 1 points 2 days ago

Nope. What I listened to at 14 is whatever was in the radio on the car, usually oldies. Which I never really cared for. I didn't care about or start developing my own musical tastes until my 20s.

[-] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Nope. Once on a while I might listen to it out of nostalgia’s sake. Otherwise it’s churning through a bunch of garbage on spotify trying to find something decent. My other half otoh is constantly listening to our high school year’s music. It’s all the same, it’s the same top songs from the charts from the same top bands, over and over… I can’t handle the repetition.

[-] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 14 points 4 days ago

This is actually not true at all for me. My music tastes completely evolved and still are evolving. Sure, if I listen to some 08 pendulum I feel some nostalgia, but I also feel nostalgia for 2112 in the same way. I think music is a comfort food for a lot of people so they never stray from what they know, which is fine. But there's so much out there to find.

[-] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 7 points 4 days ago

I agree. Now that I'm old, my tastes are finally starting to gel, but I'm still always looking for great new musical experiences. I've gravitated to LOTS of great music, and even entire new genres, that became a regular part of my listening long past 14.

I started playing the guitar again during the pandemic, after stopping for decades. Now I've become a good enough player, that most of the time, I'd rather just listen to my own self-played solo guitar music. That definitely wouldn't have been on my radar in my teens.

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[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 4 points 3 days ago

False. I listened to nothing but classical, but now I listen to almost everything.

[-] NostraDavid@programming.dev 2 points 2 days ago

Have you heard of Disembodied Tyrant? This song, Winter, is a mix of Vivaldi and Deathcore. Symphonic Deathcore, if you will.

[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 1 points 2 days ago

I had not heard of them, but I'm just listening to The Poetic Edda album right now, and it's delicious. This is yet another style of music I would definitely hated when I was younger lol.

Not the same thing but the latest bit of new classical that I'm into is the album Butterfly Lightning Shakes the Earth by India Gailey.

PS. Still listening and OMG the drums on this album. 🥵

[-] Broadfern@lemmy.world 19 points 4 days ago

I’ve expanded my music library by quite a bit since then, but the core sounds remain largely the same.

The innovation of lo-fi though has been pretty sick.

[-] Obi@sopuli.xyz 16 points 4 days ago

If you're into lo-fi maybe check out Nujabes, Japanese legend that is sometimes dubbed as the father of the genre even though it's decidedly different from the typical modern lo-fi style.

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[-] Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 15 points 4 days ago

Maybe because most people stop discovering new music because they're occupied with other stuff like jobs or having kids. And not because this music is deeply imprinted or such.

I'm still listening to SOME of what I like when I was a teeny, but 95% have shifted. Every decade I have a new favourite style. Went through rap, new age, opera, classical, heavy metal and currently black metal.

[-] sprite0@sh.itjust.works 16 points 4 days ago

not me, that stuff takes me back to dark times. I have zero nostalgia. I stuff my face with fresh bubblegum pop instead. Sophie Hunter, Ashnikko, Hayley Kiyoko, FLETCHER, Olivia Rodriguez, Flavia that's good shit

[-] ragebutt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 4 days ago

100%

Elliott smith and bright eyes? Great music but miss me with that shit. I’m done with mopey days of dwelling in sadness and misery.

Charli xcx and jpop? Hell yeah. The world is terrible but I can at least have fun when I listen to music

[-] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

Not everybody is like that. I didn't hear a lot of pop music until college, and didn't really develop my own taste until my 20s.

[-] ViatorOmnium@piefed.social 11 points 4 days ago

I listen to almost everything except what I listened at 14. At some point I figured out my peers had terrible musical taste and I started listening to what I actually enjoy.

[-] reactionality@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 4 days ago
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[-] stoly@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago

My musical tastes have changed dramatically through my life. I think that if you are still listening to the same thing as when you were 14 and now you're 40, you're probably lacking curiosity.

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[-] Olhonestjim@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I listened to exclusively pop radio country, contemporary christian music of the 90s, and classical.

I'll still indulge a little outlaw country now and then, but now it's a wide and eclectic variety of everything from black metal to experimental electronica, from Croatian street musicians to African folk songs, and nearly anything else someone suggests to me. Much of the music I liked as a teen now gets stuck in my head as part of my trauma.

Starve your curious kid of taste and when they're an adult, they may want a bite of everything.

[-] mineralfellow@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

My daughter listens to music while brushing teeth as a form of pleasant timer. We have been through the entire Weird Al discography (but had to listen to a few of the longer ones when not brushing teeth). Teenage me would approve.

[-] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 4 days ago

I rarely listen to what 14 year old me listened to.

Mostly because many of my favorite groups hadn't formed yet 😅

[-] Honytawk@feddit.nl 11 points 4 days ago

I wouldn't brag about my music tastes not updating with new music.

I couldn't stand listening to the same 10 songs for years.

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[-] for_some_delta@beehaw.org 1 points 2 days ago

I stumbled upon I checked your cellphone by Otoboke Beaver. Maybe there is some resemblance to I-E-A-I-A-I-O by System of a Down. Maybe the authors in the screenshot peaked musically at 14. I stumble upon new great music all the time.

[-] Obi@sopuli.xyz 7 points 4 days ago

Also here to brag about how my musical taste never stopped evolving. If I stayed stuck at 14 I'd still be a metalhead but I barely listen to any these days, meanwhile I've been through many more phases, I keep the bands and songs I loved most from each phase and add it to the pile. Also as I stack up the years my tastes gravitate towards lower and lower BPM and energy levels. By the time I'm 70 I'll probably only listen to drumless ambient drones or whatever.

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