How to support your friends : rpgmemes

[-] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 91 points 7 months ago

The other players must know this person well to know they'd like all this.

[-] mossy_@lemmy.world 29 points 7 months ago

yeah if my group did this for me I'd involuntary detonate from the attention

[-] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 86 points 7 months ago

I would be uncomfy with people making that big a deal out of it but very very happy for them

[-] webp@mander.xyz 48 points 7 months ago

Rolled a 20 when making friends

[-] Etterra@discuss.online 34 points 7 months ago

This is cool and all but I can't help but wonder why they went to the trouble to get them a squishy chair, of all things. Everywhere I've ever came to be just use whatever chairs were sitting around no matter the circumstances. Weird.

[-] Stamets@lemmy.world 31 points 7 months ago

They probably just like comfy squishy chairs and brought one in for the sake of it. If it's anything like any group I've been part of, it was people saying "Lets do something nice for X" and then trying to come up with ideas. One person then goes "They like squishy chairs" and someone else goes "OH I HAVE ONE I CAN BRING IN!" and then they move on

[-] Lumisal@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago

They had surgery was my guess at least

[-] lemmy_acct_id_8647@lemmy.world 28 points 7 months ago

Wow. This is so much better than the nat 1 I rolled at my coming out to friends which landed me playing DnD alone since

[-] Allero@lemmy.today 17 points 7 months ago

Sorry to know!

Everyone, let's make them join a party!

[-] pyre@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago

sounds like you dodged several bullets. as a cis person i would expect all kinds of betrayal and bullshit from people if their apparent affection towards me depends on my gender identity.

[-] NKBTN@feddit.uk 9 points 7 months ago

hugs

You'd be welcome at my table, FWIW

[-] vapeloki@lemmy.world 25 points 7 months ago

Damn Onion cutting ninjas!

[-] moody@lemmings.world 24 points 7 months ago

Sounds like a bunch of friends who already knew and were just waiting for her to come out on her own terms.

[-] Nougat@fedia.io 11 points 7 months ago

I want a comfy squishy chair.

[+] JokeDeity@sh.itjust.works -12 points 7 months ago

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[-] rockerface@lemmy.cafe 40 points 7 months ago

Friendship is not a zero sum game. I gift stuff to my friends because I want to see that dumbass smile, not because I expect something in return.

[-] FinalRemix@lemmy.world 29 points 7 months ago

You literally just said you expect a smile in return. Checkmate.

[-] rockerface@lemmy.cafe 37 points 7 months ago

Yeah but I'm not taking it from them. They can keep it, I'm just looking

[-] snugglesthefalse@sh.itjust.works 15 points 7 months ago

That's what a smilestealer would say to make us careless. I'm onto you.

[-] four@lemmy.zip 14 points 7 months ago

They license you the rights to view it, while still keeping the ownership

[-] Deathray5@lemmynsfw.com 12 points 7 months ago

Sure I'll believe you're not the face stealer

[-] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 9 points 7 months ago

NFT Smile

[-] Stamets@lemmy.world 22 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

...

So you saw a single meme about a single persons perspective and went "Well clearly if this one person is getting treated well, no one else is getting extra attention and kindness"? What kind of bizarre ass logic is that?

Edit: This dudes posting history is kind of questionable. Recent comment of theirs they randomly asked if someone was on HRT after that person said they hadn't masturbated in a year. When they said they were on HRT but had nothing to do with it, dude doubled down saying "You don't think it could have something to do with it?" Then there's the removed sexist comment in their modlog.

[-] serenissi@lemmy.world 8 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I saw the mentioned thread, tbh it seems not very unreasonable. hrt can change a lot about sexual stimulation and related emotions (ssri and other meds too).

with that said I neither read the modlog of that or of these removed comments nor intend to. I'm not supporting them in transphobia either of course.

[-] Stamets@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Very unreasonable to make that the single first question they ask and then to double down when the person tells them otherwise.

[-] serenissi@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

makes sense

[-] Stamets@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Again, not if you are randomly asking that as the first thing and if you refuse their answer of no. They know themselves better.

I get playing Devils Advocate, I do it a lot myself, but this case is getting dismissed with prejudice

Oh yeah and because there is also this extremely sus comment

[-] serenissi@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

🤦🏻‍♀️

[-] Stamets@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

Yeah dude is... Problematic

[-] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 6 points 7 months ago

If I were judging that comment in isolation, I'd probably give them the benefit of the doubt. In combination with the comment on this thread though, I feel like any of my doubt is dispelled

[-] angrystego@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

Why do you think they don't? It's just not a part of this story.

[+] JokeDeity@sh.itjust.works -14 points 7 months ago

[removed by mod]

[-] Stamets@lemmy.world 29 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

No one will miss you, transphobe.

Do love how you deleted your comment and said goodbye forever to me only to make yet another comment on my post. Run along, child

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