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I have been with mine for 2 years <33 My beloved.

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[-] Yeahigotskills2@lemmy.ml 1 points 7 hours ago

15 years, married for 13.

[-] newbeni@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

29 years together, 26 married

[-] HubertManne@piefed.social 5 points 2 days ago

Bit over 25 years.

[-] just_ducky_in_NH@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

41 years. We got engaged two months after we met, married five months after engagement, and are still going strong!

[-] klemptor@startrek.website 4 points 2 days ago

It'll be 25 years this week!

[-] Truffle@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 days ago

20 years together, fourteen of them married.

[-] doingthestuff@lemy.lol 8 points 2 days ago

33 years, our 31st anniversary is in November.

[-] sunbeam60@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 days ago

Coming up to 20 years, 17 years married.

[-] Awa@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

27 years together, 24 married

[-] bunkyprewster@startrek.website 11 points 2 days ago
[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 days ago

Nice. I thought my 1991 was old but you're doing very well.

[-] mateofeo85@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

Together for 12 years, married for 6 years.

[-] GaMEChld@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Coming up on 6 years in October!

[-] AmourDeFrance@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago
[-] juliebean@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 days ago

i envy ya'll with concrete dates. my partner and i have been together somewhere around 10 years. we've been talking off and on about getting officially married, partly to have a precise anniversary lol

[-] thevoidzero@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

You can just choose a day and go with it. As long as both of you agree, and it's approximate it's fine. We just count earth going around the sun, it's divided arbitrarily, and Earth's never going to be in exact place anyway.

[-] GaMEChld@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Yeah, at some point I just chose my cat's birthday since we only had a ballpark age from the shelter.

[-] dubyakay@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 days ago

Before we got married I figured this out via contextual chat logs and pictures.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

Bout 6 or so years.

[-] NotSteve_@piefed.ca 3 points 2 days ago

10 years since June and getting married this coming September 27th

[-] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 days ago

Partnered for 8yrs 4mo
lived together 8yrs 9mo
known each other 8yrs 10mo

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

Met in 1984. Engaged around 1986. Various hardships ensued. Purchased house together in 2000. Married in 2004. Kid in 2009.

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 6 points 3 days ago

if I'm reading this right, you hooked up with your roommate? That's a bold strategy, Cotton.

[-] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 days ago

Yep! My best friend's sister, too ๐Ÿ˜…

[-] MxRemy@piefed.social 6 points 3 days ago

One partner 8 years, the other 4. Still just as deeply in as love!

[-] SourGrapez@piefed.social 7 points 3 days ago
[-] olivergarden@piefed.social 6 points 3 days ago
[-] 0_0j@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Shit. Y'all too sweet to be real

[-] FlembleFabber@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago

1 week now, lol

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 6 points 3 days ago

April 29, 2009

We met two days before. Three months later we were engaged, a year after that we were married. No regrets.

[-] cute_noker@feddit.dk 5 points 2 days ago

7 years. Time flies..

[-] DaniNatrix@leminal.space 1 points 2 days ago

5 years! We're not really sure of the exact date cause ADHDยฒ lol we go with October cause shopping for Halloween decorations was our first date ๐ŸŽƒ

[-] Zagam@piefed.social 6 points 3 days ago

Together for 22 years, married for 15.

[-] spongebue@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I was going to say that's a long time, then I realized I'm not too far behind! 18/13 for us.

[-] Zagam@piefed.social 2 points 2 days ago

Shit goes fast yo. Like Tom Waits says- Fall in love and get married then boom; How the hell did I get here so soon?

[-] geekwithsoul@piefed.social 6 points 3 days ago

32 years ๐Ÿ‘ด๐Ÿป

[-] Fondots@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Coming up on 7 years married, probably about another 2 maybe 3 years together (she seems to think we were dating for a while before I realized it, I'm kind of dense)

We were friends for probably about another 2 or 3 years before that, and for probably about that long again before that we kind of recognized each other as friends-of-friends but only ever bumped into each other in-passing and didn't hang out.

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

19ยฝ years

[-] BananaPeal@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago

We're hitting 10 years married this October! 11 years together.

Together for a little over 9 years, married for about a year! ๐Ÿ˜

[-] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 5 points 3 days ago

together for 4 days I think??

[-] Vinny_93@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

11 years, married for 2.5

[-] AlternateRoute@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 days ago

25 years, or at least by the date we sort of agree on the first year is a little fuzzy lol.

[-] toomanypancakes@piefed.world 4 points 3 days ago

We've been married eleven years, but together for about twenty three. He's still putting up with me, it's wild!

[-] Laukatt@piefed.social 2 points 2 days ago

11 years ๐Ÿฅฐ we are both 29 years old

[-] fossman2112@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 days ago

Started dating right after 9/11, not married until 2014. Still together.

[-] Botzo@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Our first official date was opening night for the Nic Cage movie The Family Man. Married 3.5 years later.

[-] Saprophyte@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

15 years together, married 13 next month.

[-] WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Together for 16, married for 11 or 12

[-] martijndevrieze@europe.pub 2 points 2 days ago

22 years, been married for ~18 by now... Married twice, to the same woman, first time for the paperwork (that was called a Registered partnership, legally the same as marriage, with a slight difference in the type of "contract"), second time (actual marriage) for the party. Second wedding was 15 years ago

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