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Would prefer it to not be "hair" 'makeup" girlish oriented, but rather something challenging for her mind. I am her Uncle, and would like something maybe aimed at DIY outside of Lego if you know what I mean. Budget is small, maybe 39.99? Can move either way if needed

Advice, much needed as a 36 y/o male with no kids

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[-] Kennystillalive@feddit.org 4 points 5 months ago

Ask your sibling if it would be ok, to take her out to a museum or something similar.

Or aks them what she currently is into and try and get her something you know she'd love.

[-] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Would be lovely, unfortunately I live a few states away, so I can't don't that this time. I appreciate the thought though

[-] curbstickle@anarchist.nexus 1 points 5 months ago

I'd say experiences is still a good answer, its what we ask for when it comes to the kids. They have tons of toys already, they don't need more, and I'm too particular about tech for my.kids for anyone to buy them tech (without it just getting returned).

We go to animal preserves, science centers, art museums, renaissance fairs, etc. Tickets only for the kids, its more like "pick an event/activity" than anything else I guess.

Sometimes we wait for family to visit so they can go too, sometimes we just take lots of pictures.

Aside from that....

  • Rock tumblers are great, but loud, so talk with parents first.
  • There are some great kits out there to learn to sew.
  • There are electronics kits for kids that basically snap together in different arrangements for different circuits
  • Marble kits (where you build different layouts) can be fun
  • Terrariums with guides are always a good option IMO
  • Magnet blocks are also really fun and can be reused a bunch
[-] moakley@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I once bought my niece a marble run. I got some shit for it, because I guess some people just don't get it? But she loved it, and my 6-year-old daughter now loves marble runs too.

My daughter also collects rocks, so a rock tumbler was a big one for her.

Another gift for a niece I got shit for was a drum. She loved it. She was so excited that it was a real instrument. My brother always said he'd get me back, but my daughter got a full-ass drum kit for Christmas, and I think it's great.

Oh, and make your own slime kits are huge right now. It's science-y, DIY, and kids love slime.

[-] Empricorn@feddit.nl 1 points 5 months ago

I once bought my niece a marble run. I got some shit for it

By her parents? Either way, who the hell criticizes a gift to someone else? Especially if the recipient ends up loving it!?

[-] moakley@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

It was good natured. I wasn't offended.

I just think it's funny how some people are all about marble runs and some people just don't get it. No in between. Personally I'm all about marble runs.

[-] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 months ago

Sudoku book, maybe? If the likes making things, origami paper and an insteuction book? OH, I remember as a kid this toy that was short plastic sticks with magnets at the end and ball bearings ao you would make structures and stuff with em, fun to play with and suits the vibe you're looking for I think.

[-] Neuromancer49@midwest.social 3 points 5 months ago

I was about that age when I was gifted a microscope. No idea if you can still find them that cheap, though

[-] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 2 points 5 months ago

Microscopes are definitely available in OP's price range.

[-] Krudler@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

In my area's thrift stores, $500 microscopes are available for $10, no joke. People buy them for their kids, kids never use them, into the box and off to the donation center!

[-] RestlessNotions@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 months ago

My 6 year old son absolutely loves the Snap Circuits kits. We've also started teaching him collectable card games (Pokémon, Yu Gi Oh , etc) which challenge his reading and strategy skills. Plus great quality time activity. There are tons of Stem kits out there for less than $40.

[-] 7toed@midwest.social 1 points 5 months ago

Sent me back mentioning those snap circuits lol. Have her build the simple AM radio and watch her mind be blown OP, you won't be disappointed

[-] toiletobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Charades for kids. It uses her creativity.

[-] BussyGyatt@feddit.org 2 points 5 months ago
[-] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 months ago

Board games. Catan junior, Loopin Chewie, Robot turtles, Tsuro, Abracada...What?, camel up.

Regular price

[-] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Catan Jr, didn't know that existed I'll have to look into what games are around. I know her Dad taught our parents how to play Settlers of Catan a number of years ago before she was born, so that's something that she may have parents/grandparents to play with. She has a brother that is 2 years younger, so maybe they'll be able to play that together soon enough.

[-] RowdyRaider79@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

Ticket to Ride: First Journey and Qwirkle are also good choices for that age range. Qwirkle is great because it's simple but fun for all ages. My kids loved it when they were young and still play it frequently at 16 and 25.

[-] runner_g@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago

Spirograph, Crystal growing kit, search for stem toys for 6 year olds, ask her parents what she's into.

I've been doing stem toys for my niece for a few years and she always loves them. She just turned 9 in August.

[-] Krudler@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Modeling clay and good quality paints.

Artistic, technical, no real "rules", and a good amount of skill building.

[-] moondoggie@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

She needs a sword. It’s educational.

[-] Luffy879@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 months ago

Thinkpad thin client with Gentoo

[-] blave@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Is she too young for an Arduino starter kit?

https://store-usa.arduino.cc/products/arduino-starter-kit-multi-language

Edit: the great thing about these is that you can eventually add a raspberry pi to the mix for even more functionality and learning fun!

[-] smh@slrpnk.net 1 points 5 months ago

At about that age, I enjoyed putting together dominos runs and knocking them down. I also liked wooden building blocks. Nowadays they have building made out of dense foam which probably hurt less when your baby brother knocks your tower onto your head.

[-] user1234@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 5 months ago

Get her a rock tumbler.

[-] Sibbo@sopuli.xyz 1 points 5 months ago

There are also kits for learning about electricity for kids of that age. For making a light switch or making a doorbell buzzer and simple things like that.

[-] Mothra@mander.xyz 1 points 5 months ago

Maybe not in the "smart mind challenging" category but there are plenty of craft kits for your budget: paint canvases by numbers, make your own accessories with clay, bead jewelry, basic engineering kits (build your own robot types), dig your own fossil kits, build-this-or-that-with-LEDlights, gardening kits for kids, etc.

My point is to expand your horizon a bit, it's perfectly fine that you want to cater to her intelligence and not just go for something girly in a cliche sense. But she can also enjoy crafting stuff.

[-] kambusha@sh.itjust.works 0 points 5 months ago

Get her started on the "exclusive club" membership scam. She makes a "Super Secret Smart Kids Only Club" in the backyard, charges neighborhood kids $5 to join, promises amazing activities and snacks. First meeting is just them sitting in a circle while she explains the "rules" for 10 minutes, hands out one Oreo each, then says they need to pay another $3 for "premium membership" to unlock the good stuff. The good stuff never materializes but somehow kids keep showing up... What? Oh.. GIFT, I thought you said... Nevermind.

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