I'm more inclined to say it's a mutually beneficial relationship in which the US overlooks Israeli influence (and control) in US politics because of the benefits it gains from Israel. The US could at any time reverse this, by removing its support for Israel, but the issue with this argument is that the US literally never will do this because of both the benefits of Israel to the US in the middle east and the influence(and control) within US politics.
It's an entanglement. A tangled web of connections that can not be unentangled. They simultaneously control each other and because they will never disentangle they will never cease to simultaneously be controlled by and control the other.
I do think it's strongly flawed to say the US simple controls Israel by its ability to step back from support though, it's not a card that can or will ever be used so it functionally does not exist.
good post. dont think it will do anything though, how many struggle sessions have we had over mod behavior now and they're still as opaque about their actual goals and intentions as ever? 3 or 4 in the past year alone it feels like