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[-] Broken@lemmy.ml 5 points 9 hours ago

They are a legitimate service. Whether you should use them or not is something you need to decide for yourself.

One of the biggest things they are good for is not giving all of your information away. A lot of these privacy companies simply spam out all of your information and request for the company to delete anything that matches that.

So for instance, if you signed up to a website newsletter with your email, they have your email address. And that's it. Then comes a "privacy" company that send them your email address, name, home address, etc and asks them if they have any of this data then they need to delete it. That's asinine and backwards.

DeleteMe doesn't do this. They are more specific with how they process the data removal requests.

I'm not advocating for them, I don't use them and probably never will. I have no idea if they are a good company or decent at what they claim to do. I just know they don't do the spam technique.

Personally, any company that is a mass sponsor of YouTube channels is something I won't trust myself. But that's just my weird litmus test.

[-] echodot@feddit.uk 2 points 5 hours ago

My personal feeling about companies like this is that there is very little reason to assume that requesting my information be deleted will result in it actually being deleted. So at best I'm paying to be ignored.

If I could 100% guarantee that my personal information would actually be deleted upon request then sure it would be worth the money. But we all know that companies violate the law on a regular basis and nothing happens to them, especially if they're US based. So why bother?

All that nonsense can just hit my spam filter like it's been doing for the past 20 years. It's not like I answer the phone to unknown numbers either, so I'm not sure what I'm paying for here.

[-] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 4 hours ago

How's that sweet guerilla marketing money?

[-] GlenRambo@jlai.lu 11 points 1 day ago

Not to be confused (like me) with this great service. https://justdeleteme.xyz/

And not sure what happened to the old cool URL of justdelete.me

[-] PiraHxCx@lemmy.ml 44 points 1 day ago
[-] Zerush@lemmy.ml 23 points 1 day ago
[-] redparadise@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 1 day ago

Oh cool a vending machine for just 100 USD? What a steal!

[-] Zerush@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

Cheaper than the creditcard test

[-] redparadise@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 1 day ago

Well it didn't ask the CVV?

[-] MidsizedSedan@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

If I remember from Reject Convience they will spend 6 months to email 2-3 companies to delete your data. (I listen to these to fall asleep to. I may be missing some facts)

[-] Nicro@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 day ago

In reality they do help superficially, but they very much inflate their numbers on a shiny dashboard, showing you how much they're helping. All while only hitting a small fraction of databrokers.

I also think, that as a subscription solution to a problem, they could turn into the online version of turbotax any second now. Lobbying for harder self-optouts so that their service stays relevant.

[-] belluck@lemmy.blahaj.zone 74 points 1 day ago

IIRC, they’re not a scam, but they also aren’t doing anything you couldn’t do yourself. They’re just sending opt-out requests to data brokers on your behalf.

[-] Steve@communick.news 63 points 1 day ago

There are hundreds of those data brokers. And new ones opening as others close every week. Doing it yourself, and keeping up with it on a regular basis? That's nearly a full time job. Nobody does that.

[-] ryannathans@aussie.zone 31 points 1 day ago

There's a lot of those though

[-] monovergent@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 day ago

How time-consuming would doing it yourself be, if anyone here has tried?

[-] MoonMelon@lemmy.ml 23 points 1 day ago

I've tried, it sucks. Each broker has their own process, often several steps, and often a step is broken (like server errors, can't get past a captcha, "try again later", etc). You end up not just having to do the process, but also follow up with many of the ones that are ambiguous or returned server errors or whatnot. I did the top 8 or so brokers and then stopped.

[-] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 21 points 1 day ago

Quite. Some of them make it as difficult as possible, requiring the request to be physically printed and sent in via the post. Some hide the information regarding how to make the request as obscurely as possible. And essentially none of them treat it as a 'and don't collect any more' request so they just start up a new collection on you the next time you do basically anything with one of their 'business partners.' Allowing people to request deletion is just the excuse they use to keep collection legal when it shouldn't be.

[-] lattrommi@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

I used to spend one day each year doing all the opt outs and data delete requests i could find. it was going well for me until this year. i averaged about 2-3 spam emails a day, combined across 5 different emails, one was made all the way back in 1997 and two of them were made when gmail first started.

someone got breached this year, i don't know who, and now i get a lot more.

i also used firefox monitor to check for info on breach websites and darkweb lists, around the same time i started getting more spam, my list of breached info went from ~16 to 600+.

[-] amanneedsamaid@sopuli.xyz 25 points 1 day ago

If you want that service, don't consider anything else besides EasyOptOuts, it's both the cheapest and most effective option.

[-] bl4kers@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 day ago

How is it the most effective option? They seem to cover less sites than others

[-] ashughes@feddit.uk 23 points 1 day ago

Reject Convenience did a pretty good breakdown of DeleteMe, Incogni and the data broker industry on their YouTube channel a while back. It’s a good overview but, fair warning, it might send you down a bit of a rabbit hole after watching.

video

[-] Junkers_Klunker@feddit.dk 2 points 21 hours ago

Reject Convenience makes some really great videos, but holy fuck are they a depressing watch.

[-] LytiaNP@lemmy.today 8 points 1 day ago
[-] piyuv@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago

Can you put a tl;dw here? Are they scams?

[-] doodoo_wizard@lemmy.ml 0 points 12 hours ago

There’s already some really good replies, but think critically for a second about what you’re asking for:

You want a summary of content made by “reject convenience” about the data broker and removal request industry, shouted into the void on social media, specifically on the insanely easy to infiltrate and subvert fediverse.

Real black comedy posting hours who’s up?

[-] WoodScientist@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago

Seriously. It's criminal to not include a summary in a case like that.

[-] ech@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

A tldr isn't sufficient to determine if something's a scam or not. It'd be negligent/sketchy to include one.

[-] LytiaNP@lemmy.today 1 points 1 day ago

Reject Convience does privacy policy reading streams, and has a pretty hard stance on no TLDRs. If you don't have time to watch it, save it for later. Better that than to trust a random person's 5 word TLDR.

[-] Zerush@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

"Your Privacy is our Business" is also a Google slogan

[-] MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago

Exactly why I suspect it.

[-] Buffy@libretechni.ca 15 points 1 day ago

If you have a Discover card, they offer a service like this for free. I'm not sure how good it is, but since they already have my information I figured it was fine to use their service instead of increasing my footprint by passing my info to another company. It also hasn't found anything since I started using it because I did what they do manually, years ago.

[-] Periodicchair@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago

They are discontinuing the service January 15, 2026.

[-] winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago

Everything gets worse :(

[-] stink@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 1 day ago

It no longer exists and they're being sold to Capital One 🙃

[-] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 day ago

This is the second time I've seen this info yet I can't find anything with discover anywhere.

[-] metaphortune@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

They are discontinuing the service :(

[-] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 1 points 15 hours ago

That explains it. Thank you.

[-] Steve@communick.news 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

There are several companies that do this.
Even Mozilla did until this month.

DeleteMe seems not to be the best. They might sell data to places while getting it removed from other places.

I just signed up with Incogni which is one of the biggest.

[-] Babalugats@feddit.uk 8 points 1 day ago

According to the wiki page you linked, incogni are owned by surfshark.

[-] MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Is there a Firefox Extension that does it still orrrr...?

[-] Steve@communick.news 6 points 1 day ago

Not the kind if thing you can do with an extension.
Every broker has their own process. Some even require actual physical letters be sent to remove your data.

[-] SlicedPotato@feddit.dk 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Several of the big privacy people have recommended them online, e.g. Techlore, so I'd say yes. Though it's been a couple years since I saw those reviews, and I haven't read up on them recently.

EDIT: Grammar.

[-] sic_semper_tyrannis@lemmy.today 22 points 1 day ago

No they don't. EasyOptOuts is the one TechLore recommends and also the one Consumer Reports recommends for your best bang for buck.

[-] SlicedPotato@feddit.dk 4 points 1 day ago

Oh well, they did in the past.

[-] PattyMcB@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Might want to edit that again for spelling, too. Lol

[-] Cassa@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

heard that stuff like deleteme and incogni sell your data to other places so if you ever stop subscribing so I'd avoid it myself 🤷

you can do it yourself, find a list of brokers and send the same mail/pdf or whatever to them all

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