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submitted 3 months ago by Beep@lemmus.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

It feels like this is very intense here compared to other social media services/protocols.

Why is that?

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[-] faltryka@lemmy.world 21 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Could just be a consequence of a less ideologically diverse user base to start with.

I’m so upset about (privacy, reddit, corporatism, etc, etc) that I’m prepared to leave my large online social networks for a smaller space on principle is probably a bit of an outlier position to take.

Not that it’s wrong, but it’s probably something we all agree on. Something out there is so fucked up we refuse to be a part of it on principle, even if we don’t fully agree on what that is.

[-] RalphNader2028@reddthat.com 5 points 3 months ago

This is the answer!

[-] 37piecesof_flare@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Principle*

Lovely observation of the greatest commonality here, though.

[-] faltryka@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

Good call out, corrected.

[-] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 10 points 3 months ago

So...I'm guessing you haven't installed Linux yet?

If so, try Linux. We're not a cult or anything.

[-] dbtng@moist.catsweat.com 2 points 3 months ago

O RYL? :]
What distro would you recommend?

What do you think should be done about unbelievers?
After all, those who have strayed from the one true path must be dealt with...

[-] AskewLord@piefed.social 0 points 3 months ago
[-] dbtng@moist.catsweat.com 1 points 3 months ago

And what of the Debian Heretics with their deviant Trixie?
What shall we do with them?

[-] zabadoh@ani.social 6 points 3 months ago

Looking at your post history, I'm just seeing that the down votes look average to me.

If that's what you're talking about, I wouldn't take down votes personally.

Often what people are down voting is bad news, not necessarily fake news or something they disagree with.

If that's not what you're talking about, then never mind.

[-] dbtng@moist.catsweat.com 9 points 3 months ago

I started a thread about lemvotes some time back.
Several people went to look up their own post histories, and one guy offered the most unique insight.
Apparently in this Lemmy client on his phone, he was clicking a button to make posts 'go away' after he read them.
Well after looking up his own vote history, this guy realized he's been downvoting everything he reads, all the time. That was not a 'go away' button.
After reading this guy's confused bullshit with the voting buttons, I came to realize that there are innumerable reasons for why people vote, and it may not at all be what you think.

[-] zabadoh@ani.social 7 points 3 months ago

...this guy realized he's been downvoting everything he reads, all the time.

That's hilarious!

[-] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 3 months ago

true, but let's be honest most downvotes are just people disliking what you wrote.

[-] dbtng@moist.catsweat.com 1 points 3 months ago

Of course you are correct.
My point is that its a mistake to assume you know what's going on with a downvote.

[-] SwingingTheLamp@piefed.zip 4 points 3 months ago

I'm not sure. What does everybody else think?

[-] artifex@piefed.social 3 points 3 months ago

Mute lemmygrad, hexbear, .ml and maybe blahaj and see if you still feel the same afterwards.

[-] Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Basically filter out the tankies, and this place becomes pleasant. I can't say you're wrong.

[-] kbal@fedia.io 3 points 3 months ago

Lemmings have always been well-known for running in herds.

Depends on your instance. 

[-] weaponG@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

Where there's a herd, there's a say.

[-] schwim@piefed.zip 2 points 3 months ago

So.... everyone here is upvoting cat pics?

[-] Almacca@aussie.zone 2 points 3 months ago

That's what I herd as well.

[-] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

I'll tell you exactly why. As soon as I see what everyone else said.

[-] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 months ago

If it's downvotes you're concerned about, I think the fact is that bad scoring aren't hidden by default like reddit which is why unpopular downvoted takes are more visible. People feel strongly here about their opinions but I wouldn't worry too much about the amount of downvotes in general so long as it's not because you're an asshole or troll.

Social media bubbles are present everywhere, the way the Fediverse is set up I think leads to stronger but smaller echo chambers, which I don't think is necessarily a bad thing because you choose what kind of group you want to be with and which other "bubbles" you will interact with based on how aligned your values are with other bubbles. You get the choice of what things you want to debate and discuss and what you don't.

[-] limpatzk@bookwyr.me 0 points 3 months ago

I've always thought it's weird, kind of childish, to downvote posts just because you disagree with them. I usually downvote posts that are low-quality, rude comments or misinformation.

[-] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

i downvote posts that whine about downvoting.

and in '26 pretty much everything anyone disagrees with is 'misinformation'. people no longer agree on basic facts of reality anymore.

[-] dbtng@moist.catsweat.com 1 points 3 months ago

Hehe. I do that too. :]

[-] vogi@piefed.social 2 points 3 months ago

Don’t understand the downvotes you get. I don’t think it’s Lemmy exclusive though. It’s just what the reddit like voting system promotes. Just hiding the score would make it a lot better i think.

[-] Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

Because it's an echo chamber. You have communities that are modded by a small group of people who can control narratives through censorship, the community is very hostile to any differing views from their own, and the existing communities are so devoid of internal criticism that they start to purity test each other, which leads to more extreme views and develops a herd mentality.

[-] RalphNader2028@reddthat.com 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I don't have an answer for you, OP. I will say that Lemmy is the angriest social media platform I have ever been on. I have never seen so many angry people who will actually stalk people (across mulitple posts) they disagree with, as I have seen on Lemmy. I've seen people here advocate for murder and torture of people and/or politicians they don't agree with. It’s crazy!

[-] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

What instances have you seen that on? Definitely should mention it/report it to those in charge of those instances and if they refuse to address it at least block those instances or if large enough of a problem discuss defederating the instance from your own.

That said, calling for people who commit illegal acts or crimes against humanity to be charged with crimes is different than calling for someone to have their nails ripped off and partially drown repeatedly.

[-] mrdown@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

It is as angry as any other platform

[-] foodandart@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 months ago

Oh, spend time on Reddit.

I was there almost 15 years and it is mind-meltingly toxic compared to lemmy.

Now I'm on the lemmy.zip instance and tend to lean towards more tech ended stuff, so maybe that's the difference..

This site is light-years nicer than Reddit's been since about 2018.

I think it's the lack of rage-bots here, that's the ticket..

[-] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 months ago

I was there almost 15 years and it is mind-meltingly toxic compared to lemmy.

And yet it's fristratingly addictive at the same time.

Sometimes I have to go back to ask a question on r/skyrim mods and I always make the mistake of doing a bit of scrolling. Thankfully I always catch myself 20-30 minutes in, but that's still time out of my day that I don't consoder well spent.

Lemmy has no algorithm to feed that addiction, and I really appreciate it

[-] bhamlin@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago
[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 3 months ago

Look! A three-headed monkey!

[-] realitaetsverlust@piefed.zip 0 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I think it's moderation. If you have a differing opinion from the mainstream (as in what the moderation team thinks), you'll get banned from the current community and any other community that mod is moderating. It's absolutely insane.

That quite obviously leads to a chilling effect where people aren't willing to discuss anything controversial freely, like their political stance, unless of course it's the one mods have.

I like piefed and Lemmy, but this is by far the worst place for any political discussion

[-] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 months ago

That has not been my experience. There are a number of times I've had fundamental differences with the zeitgeist and I've been largely down voted before, but never banned. I don't think I've ever even had a comment removed, and some of them have been pretty borderline.

Maybe it's due to other issues besides your opinion? Idk. Hope you find communities that fit you.

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