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Feeling a bit down tonight. How do you guys like to lighten up?

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[-] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 5 points 2 years ago

Been watching James May's Our Man in India and it's fantastic.

You could also try watching Bluey. Like, unironically it's a fantastic show. Best way I've seen someone put it is that it's a show for adults that children can watch.

[-] geoma@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago

Meditation is the best for me. Not striving to get out of the "down" state, but just being there, present, watching it, feeling it, being with it. You know that sooner or later it'll go. Just as being cheerful also goes. Arts are also wonderful. For me it's music. For some people painting or writing. Those are ways in which you can connect with your feelings and discover some really neat things when you can really connect. You channel your complex emotions into creativity. I personally think that playing a videogame or having a distraction can some very specific times get you out of a mood, but most of the time it will just be avoidance of something that is happening within you. We are so used in avoiding ourselves. Be it a videogame, TV, a reel, a joint, a beer, a chat, whatever. For me there are few things better than what happens when you manage to overcome the boredom, fear, anxiety or whatever keeps you away from being just where you are and decide to just stay there and look at it with eyes wide open. Something opens. It's probably not fireworks nor spiritual epiphany, but a subtle thing that has the taste of real. And that real is oh so liberating.

[-] sadbehr@lemmy.nz 5 points 2 years ago

Gummy bears.

[-] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 5 points 2 years ago

Take a cold ass shower. After spending a few minutes yelling at myself for putting me in there. I remember to turn around many times so I get cold water all over. I feel a lot of relief when I do turn off the water and warm up. You can even make yourself warm tea and be nice to yourself after it.

That sounds healthy, right?

[-] TheOSINTguy@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 years ago

Cold showers are actually really nice after working out.

[-] Sparrow_1029@programming.dev 5 points 2 years ago

My wife got me onto a comedy podcast called Bananas on the This is Exactly Right network--it's usually really funny. We both also like Dungeons & Daddies which is a Dungeons and Dragons improv comedy type podcast. Just lay in bed and laugh

[-] FeelThePower@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 years ago

I could use some comedy for sure! I'll look into it.

[-] 31415926535@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago

Say "bubbles" in the deepest voice you possibly can. It always make me chuckle when in a funk.

[-] icanwatermyplants@reddthat.com 3 points 2 years ago

Just wait until you watched a certain little Britain sketch. "Bubbles" will be forever etched into your mind.

[-] ulkesh@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago

Caffeine, and spend money.

[-] tamagotchicowboy@hexbear.net 4 points 2 years ago

Waste time on the internet, maybe modding or other nerdy projects

[-] Nemo@midwest.social 4 points 2 years ago

You gotta start it with a positive jam!

[-] AlpineSteakHouse@hexbear.net 4 points 2 years ago

It's just better to get used to a baseline level of misery than relying on happiness to get yourself out of a funk.

That said, turn the fucking devices off, get a big fucking cup of herbal tea, and look at the natures for 30 minutes. You are not allowed to press the buttons on the misery-skinner-box until tea is gone and timer is up.

[-] muntedcrocodile@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

A walk, copius amounts of alcohol (will postpone not solve), a joint with a favourite movie/tv show and a tall glass of choccy milk.

[-] hperrin@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Shopping, alcohol, gambling, drugs. None of those is my answer.

[-] averyminya@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago

Lists, strong emotive music, niche interest rabbit holes (preferably new) and awful people (It's always Sunny)... I also clean if I'm able, short bursts usually.

[-] blakeus12@hexbear.net 4 points 2 years ago

talk to my comrades on hexbear

[-] pythonoob@programming.dev 4 points 2 years ago

I just remember that everything is going to die with the heat death of the universe and I feel at peace.

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[-] kattenluik@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago

That doesn't sound like it'd help

[-] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Sometimes the only way to deal with bad emotions is to go through them. It's good to take time and recognize your emotions and explore them, if that makes sense. Listening to sad songs might help with that and it helps you feel not alone because someone else feels bad too.

It is important to not dwell too much or else you might turn into a teenage angst version of me and no one wants that.

[-] SecretPancake@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago

Singing to your favorite songs

[-] Resol@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago
[-] verity_kindle@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

I listen to some Rick Astley.

[-] pingveno@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

He's never going to let you down.

[-] verity_kindle@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

He's never messed around and hurt me.

[-] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Listen to music.

[-] Trollivier@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Seriously, two things on the internet can help me laugh uncontrollably.

  • Reading Garfield Minus Garfield. It's hilarious when you just imagine that Jon is simply completely neurotic.

  • Or, whatever hilarious "autocorrect" disaster screenshots will do the trick also.

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[-] Truffle@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Take a nice shower,get to yoga class even on the days I don't feel like it, treating myself to a nice book or random thing I want, talking to my therapist and letting it all out.

[-] Silentiea@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

I gets me some delicious, fresh baked memes from above wholesome farm (discord channel) that I know won't make me feel worse because they enforce their utopian ideals through heavy handed moderation.

[-] Neato@ttrpg.network 2 points 2 years ago

I watch the Monster Factory on YouTube. Specifically the more recent Dark Souls 3 episodes with the randomized translator for all text. Always puts be in a good mood.

[-] verdare@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago

I didn’t know they were still running. I’ve only seen a few episodes, but the Mass Effect 2 one is one of my comfort vids.

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[-] BigBananaDealer@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

watching some avgn makes me feel better

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