61

I am looking for a name for an idea that I have for a website. It is a niche hobby, but there is a greek word for it that most people don't know. Lets say its a book club and the word was Bibliophile or a music club called Melophile.

Would you, if you did not know the meaning, think of it as something sexual, or maybe even something bad? I am nervous that users might relate it to pedophile even though that is just one of, (but maybe best known) philias there are

top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[-] ad_on_is@lemmy.world 62 points 5 months ago

When I hear "audiophile", I truly never think about licking the banana-plugs, so nope.

There are also some popular YT channels like Computerphile and Numberphile

[-] mPony@lemmy.world 17 points 5 months ago

to be frank, "Numberwang" is more titillating than "Numberphile"

[-] yemmly@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago
[-] galacticDust@programming.dev 3 points 5 months ago

Let's rotate the board!

[-] cam_i_am@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago

Cinephile is another common term.

[-] cosmicrookie@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago

Yeah another user mentioned those two too. The interesting part is that they have used a mixture of english and greek. For example Numberphile uses the enlish word "number" instead of the proper Arithmophile. I wonder if this is to make it easier to understand

[-] CoggyMcFee@lemmy.world 13 points 5 months ago

The reason that a linguist would give is that -phile has become a somewhat productive suffix in English, so it is not constrained to Greek roots.

[-] tobogganablaze@lemmus.org 42 points 5 months ago

No, because I know what the suffix means.

[-] cosmicrookie@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago

But this is my question. The suffix means "to like" but this can be a good and a bad thing, depending on what the prefix is, like mentioned in the description. If you did not recognize the prefix would the average user assume the suffix to be sexual or negatively charged?

[-] tobogganablaze@lemmus.org 14 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Well, I don't think there is anything inherently sexual about the suffix, so no. But can't speak for the average user.

[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 3 points 5 months ago

I dunno. Does this sound sexual to you?

Barantaphile

[-] Delphia@lemmy.world 31 points 5 months ago

Just remember that the average Lemmy user is a bit more literate than the average kneejerk reaction idiot. Id say theres nothing wrong with it but you can probably come up with something a little more catchy and clever if you put your mind to it.

[-] cosmicrookie@lemmy.world 8 points 5 months ago

I think you are right. I might go with a mixture of English and Greek like an other user mentioned (computerphile, numberphile, bookphile) even though they are not proper.

[-] daddyjones@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago

I honestly think Bibliophile is used commonly enough that most people would understand it. Not quite as much as Audiophile, but you do hear it. It also sounds, info, much better than Bookphile.

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 25 points 5 months ago

Phile is pretty much the best known greek suffix out there. It gets tagged onto most hobbies, so you don't have to worry about it being defaulted to sexual matters. Tbh, most of the paraphilias are so obscure that nobody without an interest in the field is going to know them the way -phobias are. I mean, can you name the other chronophilias besides pedophilia? Did you even know that there were others? Most people really only know one or two sexual-philias at most, where they'll have heard of a dozen or so non sexual ones.

But, just tacking phile or philia onto a word can be clunky, so you might end up with it not working well anyway.

[-] cosmicrookie@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Yeah I shared a link in an other comment about this. There seem to be quite a lot, and most of them end with "philia". This is also my main concern. That most will have heard the suffix used with one of those

https://lemmy.world/comment/8887844

[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 22 points 5 months ago

“Audiophile” has never before brought to mind the concept of “pedophile”.

In fact, note the way we shorten the word: “pedo”.

I wouldn't worry about it. But I’m autistic, so the way my brain processes these words might be different than an NT’s brain.

Mostly I think it’s only going to be a problem for people who are looking for trouble, and you can’t really avoid problems with those people.

[-] 520@kbin.social 18 points 5 months ago

There is audiophile. It refers to someone who is obsessed about audio quality.

[-] nondescripthandle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Theres also Audiophilic content too, and yet if you say you're an audiophile no one mistakes it to mean you listen to audio porn. Context is going to be king with that suffix I wager.

[-] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.world 15 points 5 months ago
[-] Avg@lemm.ee 8 points 5 months ago

That's a large group though.

load more comments (3 replies)
[-] otp@sh.itjust.works 14 points 5 months ago

It really depends. I think -phile tends to make me think non-sexual, and -philia makes me think sexual. Probably just because of how the words are used.

People tend to be willing to describe themselves as an x-phile, but psychological or legal literature are more likely to say something like "a person with x-philia" or "displaying traits of x-philia".

[-] ShellMonkey@lemmy.socdojo.com 3 points 5 months ago

I suspect the part with descriptions in literature is due to it being in a 3rd person. There seems to be a recent-ish trend though for people to refer to themselves in a 'person who has X' sense though to separate the person from the condition so maybe that changes.

load more comments (3 replies)
[-] rustyfish@lemmy.world 13 points 5 months ago

I assume the people who automatically think of something negative or sexual when hearing the word „phile“ are the same people you don’t want to associate with in the first place. Their opinion is worthless and can be ignored. Don’t waste your time with other people’s ignorance.

[-] cosmicrookie@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

I'd agree with you, but if it is for the purpose of educating people, I wouldn't want to scare them away because they would feel its a risky click when linked to...

load more comments (2 replies)
[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 10 points 5 months ago

I'd simply guess "lover, liker, fond of", without any obligatory sexual connotation. Even if I don't recognise the first part, as in... say, "wugphile" ("wug" is just a nonsense placeholder).

[-] GadolElohai@kbin.social 4 points 5 months ago

If you created a page called "Wugphile" I would totally think it was about linguistics :D

load more comments (1 replies)
[-] weeeeum@lemmy.world 8 points 5 months ago

I have some interest in chemistry and after a while when I hear "phile" my first thought is "they are attracted to water".

[-] Bebo@literature.cafe 5 points 5 months ago

Hydrophilic!

load more comments (4 replies)
[-] Devi@kbin.social 7 points 5 months ago

I don't know if this is international but it's a common joke in British media to use this as a bit of a joke, for example a geeky character might say that they're a bibliophile, and the dumb character will make it sexual.

[-] NightAuthor@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Random dude I was talking to mentioned he was a “heliophile” mid-conversation about weather. Dude thought he was so smart, cuz apparently no one ever knows what he means when he uses that term. He joked about people sort of recoiling at the sound of the word.

Anyway, I’d heard of helio and phile…. So he likes the sun. Uh, cool.

load more comments (1 replies)
[-] AgentGrimstone@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago

Not necessarily, it depends on whether I recognize the first part of the word. For example, I dont immediately think "audiophile," is negative or sexual in nature.

[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 6 points 5 months ago

There's only two words with the 'phile' ending that is sexual that I can think of. But audiophile, videophile, and a host of others use that ending in the context of a preference or attraction: nemophile has nothing to do with animated fish, for instance. Hemophilia is another example of a commonplace word that is definitely not sexual.

I want to think the average person knows there's no sex in halophilia, but we could be overestimating.

load more comments (3 replies)
[-] invisiblegorilla@sh.itjust.works 4 points 5 months ago
[-] fubo@lemmy.world 16 points 5 months ago

"one who pays too much for speaker cables"

[-] invisiblegorilla@sh.itjust.works 4 points 5 months ago

A true audiophile can tell the difference between when its wound clockwise vs anticlockwise. /s

load more comments (3 replies)
[-] cosmicrookie@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Botanophile... my question is, what the average user who does not know the word or can guess it, will think of it. There is not doubt that it is not a sexual suffix, but if the reader does not recognize it, would they think it was?

load more comments (2 replies)
[-] ABCDE@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

Nah it's okay. Anglophile doesn't mean you want to bang me.

load more comments (2 replies)
[-] Drewelite@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Nah, I just assume it's someone that really likes something. Kind of like saying food-porn but even less sexual. Like Audiophile is common parlance that evokes no sexual meaning.

[-] phorq@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 months ago

I would understand that it just means a connoisseur of something, but you could always change the spelling to "file" to make it more digital-y and even less associated with problematic obsessions.

load more comments (3 replies)
[-] olsonexi@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

No. There's plenty of common examples of that suffix being used in a non-sexual non-negative context. For example: someone who enjoys reading books is called a bibliophile, there's also the youtube channels Computerphile and Numberphile.

load more comments (1 replies)
[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago
[-] yemmly@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Is it “furryphile”? Then yeah, they’ll think it’s sexual.

load more comments
view more: next ›
this post was submitted on 28 Mar 2024
61 points (85.9% liked)

Ask Lemmy

26249 readers
1387 users here now

A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions


Rules: (interactive)


1) Be nice and; have funDoxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them


2) All posts must end with a '?'This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?


3) No spamPlease do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.


4) NSFW is okay, within reasonJust remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either !asklemmyafterdark@lemmy.world or !asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com. NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].


5) This is not a support community.
It is not a place for 'how do I?', type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email info@lemmy.world. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.


Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.

Partnered Communities:

Tech Support

No Stupid Questions

You Should Know

Reddit

Jokes

Ask Ouija


Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu


founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS