You are not the asshole. The purpose of that community is to have communication with humans. When a bot posts a question there, there is no reason to respond. It's not a human asking, and the human that originally asked in another forum will never see the response. I blocked that spammy bot, and have enjoyed my feed way better since.
Plus who are you helping? AITA is about engagement with the person involved.
Helping someone not be an asshole, or reassuring them that they aren't.
I don't see the benefit of reassuring a bot 🙃
Not yet at least... Just wait until AI gets out of the LLM stage and starts to become sentient.
NTA.
AITA is not about sharting funny content and then asking "am I an asshole or what", it's a way for the OP to invite (hopefully) honest and civilized discussion and criticism about their actions, without risking verbal abuse or being downvoted to hell. When a bot reposts an existing question without the OP's knowledge, it loses the line of communication between OP and the community and the entire point of an AITA post. Populating the fediverse with content is important, but compromising the entire reason that content exists is not the way to build a community.
edit: sharing, not sharting. I'm not changing it because funny.
edit: sharing, not sharting. I’m not changing it because funny.
Worried for you if your autocorrect is ready to go with sharts. 😂
Yep if you're sharting instead of sharing them YTA. ;)
Tbh “sharting” is pretty apt for what a bot reposting AITA posts is doing lol.
You mean the !AmItheAsshole@lemmit.online community? The entire lemmit.online instance is literally meant as a Reddit post archive, as you can read in the pinned post on the instance's main page.
You're not an asshole, but you're misinformed and failed to do your research.
A bit off-topic, but AITA is a community I don't mind if it stays on Reddit.
It's either fake stories, people looking for approval, people who don't mind their own lives, or arm-chair psychologists taking guesses.
Yeah I would not miss AITA.
TONS of rage bait, but people ate it up. 🤦♀️
“AITA for not going to my son’s wedding rehersal?…..”
“….because I have a major surgery that day and I will die if I don’t get the surgery”
“AITA for calling my wife a whore in bed?”
“…she told me its her kink”
Ugh you're right. I admit I've scrolled through AITA more often than I should, because something about it is really entertaining.
But it's like junk food, I don't really feel good when I'm done with it. More vindictive, like those revenge subs. Being off Reddit has reduced how much I see it, and I don't particularly want to go back to that.
I block every community that bot posts in. I don’t want to see endless posts with zero discussion or engagement from anyone. It’s just noise to me.
Personally I just blocked the bot.
As a mobile app user, I haven’t figured out how to do that yet. Memmy has the option but I don’t know if it actually works.
Go to the site on web browser and block it there. It won’t show up on your app afterwards
Thanks for the tip! I found an app (wefwef) to literally replace my habits from the Good Place and haven’t bothered to actually learn much about this place yet.
Yeah I started out with wefwef, it’s really good. I’ve switched over to Memmy now as I find it better replicates my Apollo experience on iOS, but a solid +1 for wefwef
Yea i keep going between memmy and wefwef, haven’t looked at mlem in a while. Wefwef has some weird performance glitches and memmy keeps getting better so may have to make memmy my main again, we’ll see!
If you were truly loyal to Lemmy and not going back all the time like a sucker, you wouldn’t even know, so yes, YTA.
/s
But seriously, if you were to try to fertilize land that is desert, you would have to plant millions and millions of plants and babysit them because they wouldn’t survive on their own yet, before the ecosystem changes and becomes relatively self-sufficient. So I think copying and crossposting is a legit way to boost the community, at least for now.
I suppose I should specify that this is from the lemmit.online server. Now I’m wondering if the entire server only exists to copy Reddit content… in which case, there’s a little egg on my face.
However, I still think that it’s lame. It also underscores some issues with lemmi, in that it has more subscribers and appears to be more popular than some actual communities that you can engage with. I’m sure I’m not the only one who subscribed without realizing what exactly it was…
Alright, done ranting. Carry on! 😊
Blocked lemmit bot yesterday. Infuriating watching it spam “all” with trash
Just an FYI for anyone else using Memmy; the block user function does not currently work. You have to log into the website on a browser, search for the bot (@bot@lemmit.online) and block it that way. Afterwards it won’t show up on Memmy
lemmit.online is an instance dedicated to copying subs over from reddit just to have content. All of the communities on lemmit.online do this
Yeah, figured that out shortly after posting and commented on it below. Still don’t like it, and I believe that it reflects poorly on Lemmy as a whole if it’s showing up in the main feed. Just my $.02 though. 😊
That's fair, it seems like something that would be useful to have but probably shouldn't be showing up on "all" type feeds, though I'm not sure if there is any way to fix that past just blocking communities. Maybe allowing users to block entire instances in their profiles could help.
I can see both sides of it. Sometimes, you just need a little activity to get stuff going. Otherwise, newcomers coming and seeing empty posts can turn them away
But in this case specifically (mods can only post and it's all copy-paste from Reddit), I'd block them too
I blocked the bot. It's artificial
The bot did annoy me, so I just blocked it and carried on. I block other stuff I'm not interested in, so it's nothing personal.
I hate that bot SO MUCH. It's the only account i have blocked on Lemmy.
I think a better idea to populate this page with content AND encourage discussion would be a "Best Of" style community. Don't just blindly copy everything over, but curate the best and encourage discussion around those.
Of course that would take work and I'm not doing that.
A "BestOfAmITheAsshole" community sound like the right answer here. It also needs a lot of context from the comments to make it worthwhile, much like the BestOfRedditUpdates sub. And like you said, that's a lot of work that won't be easy to do with just a bot. Maybe someone can figure out a way to do it with chatgpt web.
The worst part of Reddit was all the karma farming repost bots. Let’s keep it a Reddit thing.
I always suspected a majority of posts in AITA the sub were fiction (either human made or AI). So anything to get away from that I'm all for.
No. I see a lot of reposts in here, even with meme templates 13 years old, and I’d rather not see them at all
Yeah, a lot of these posts are like a “best of” from Reddit. If I wanted to see bots repost top posts from reddit, I would have stayed on Reddit.
I just switched to Lemmy yesterday, and I tried finding most of the communities I followed on reddit here. Since then, I've slowly realized that some of these communities rely on this automated bot that just dumps reddit content there.
I can appreciate the effort of populating these communities, but I found it irritating most of the time, since this is content that I can not genuinely interact with, only consume.
So, I don't think you're at fault here.
AITA quality went down hill because they removed the no-validation rule.
What you got was poor-faithed questions of people looking for validation about a situation where they clearly weren't going to be the asshole.
Then as it grew in popularity appealing to the general populace it encouraged people to use it for the purpose of farming karma. They would post low effort, baits. You would get astroturfing or people subtly posting their fetishes.
The only community I miss is AmITheAngel where people just laughed at some of the more extreme examples of the above mentioned problems.
NTA. I agree this is obnoxious and counterproductive. If there's an actual need for an AITA comm on lemmy then it should be able to grow organically.
There's literally no one tell they're the ass hole.
I don't think any of those people are real anyway so whatever.
I blocked the lemmit bot a week or so ago. Smooth sailing (:
majority of /r/AITA is fake,
Why would anyone want bot/fake posts flooding this place?
Hi. Lemmit developer/owner here.
You are not the asshole. As you are quite aware by now, the whole point of the bot/Lemmy server is to copy content from Reddit. I know the bot can be quite spammy, and I have no idea why people Request subreddits like these, let alone subscribe to them - since it doesn't copy any comments, even when it EXPLICITLY states so in every post.
When I created the bot, I did so specifically for subs where interaction with OP and other community members is of little value, like !itookapicture@lemmit.online , !steamdeals@lemmit.online and, errr, "grown up subreddits".
That so many people subscribe to "cliffhanger subs" (just the questions without the answers) is beyond me, but it's a side-effect of the model / open market, I suppose. I do intend to keep improving the bot though. Short term plans are for adding some thresholds of minimum karma levels before archiving a post, and putting a sticky on each community that suggests actual, organic communities rather than this.
My end goal for Lemmit is for it to be unnecessary - that all the content people love is created here. But I do know it's hard to let go of some of the content treasures people leave behind.
Last but not least: I sincerely encourage everybody who dislikes the bot to block it, or to ask their server owners to defederate from lemmit.online if they dislike it. That's the beauty of the fediverse, in my opinion.
I just now saw your response. Thanks for the reasoned, thoughtful reply. I by no means meant for that post to be a personal attack against you, and hope you didn’t take it as such. I can definitely see some value for the communities that you mentioned.
I think that the freedom here is definitely both a blessing and a curse. I worry that requiring too much of new users will hinder adoption, and I really want to see the Lemmy community grow. I don’t think there is a way to change that without changing the fundamental nature of Lemmy though…
Anyway, thanks for being awesome.
NTA.
I think ITA for being the only one here that dislikes AITA period. That shit subreddit should never have migrated here. It’s just karma farming.
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