Read the books a few years ago, it definitely suffers from "male sci-fi protagonist" tropes but it was mostly a pretty dry story about young guy observing the collapsed society and eventually settling down with a group of people and his observations of his life, then the lives of the children, and his eventual death.
There really weren't that many parts where there was human/human conflict and those were pretty short subplots that were quickly resolved.
It was like "The Road" but without any cannibals.