Being wrong.

I'm wrong sometimes, no big deal. Finding out what is correct is just another learning experience.

Going to concerts alone

Eating out alone is great. You get to be adjacent to people without actually needing to interact with them.

Breaking the "rules" of masculinity.

Many years ago I worked for a medical company. A coworker (Boomer dude) and I were demonstrating a lift mechanism when I made the joke: last time I got in a harness, there was a safe word.

The joke killed, but my coworker was mad for weeks because in the joke, I implied we were going to have sex.

Poo. Everyone needs to do it. Some people have bags instead of bumholes. I have a condition which means I need medication or I’ll shit myself into a serious illness or injury. How many people would be saved if they weren’t so hung up on talking about their poo?

telling people how much money i make. i want everyone at my job to be aware of any inconsistent salary payments so they can use it to ask for adjustments.

As a dude, drinking sweet cocktails instead of beer and not having more than one or two drinks. First of all, I have the asian flush so I get red very easily. Even if I'm not drunk at all, I look like it. So I nurse my drink and sip slowly. I also usually don't have more than 2 in a night. And if I'm gonna nurse a drink, I might as well have something that tastes delicious.

Being on stage/in the spotlight

I don't care if people - even strangers - see me naked. I don't walk around nude or anything, not because of shame or embarrassment, but because I don't wanna inflict such a visage on anyone against their will. But someone having seen my dick doesn't make me embarrassed at all. For example, if someone walks in on me changing, or if someone yanks my pants down as a prank out in public, none of that bothers me in the slightest. In fact, I sometimes feel like I have to pretend to be a little embarrassed just because I worry that people will think I'm into public exhibitionism or something. It's better for the other person if I pretend to be shocked/panicking. It's weirder for them if I just stand there with my shlong out and start talking to them like nothing is out of the ordinary. But I really don't give a shit.

• Living with your parents as an adult.
• Not knowing how to do "basic" things (as long as you work on them once the issue is presented)
• Playing with toys/collectables
• Being scared of the dark

apparently missing your tram station and sitting down until the next one

Nudity, it's just a fucking body stop sexualizing normal human bodies ffs

Taking a fat shit in a public restroom. No reason to be shy about it. Everyones gotta go sometimes.

Paying for sex. Way better than pretending you like somone and string them along for sex. Or worse force yourself on somebody. If you're going out the regular way you will probably spend just as much.

This way you get to do it with someone who looks the way you want, is a professional and therefore pretty good at what they do. Also you can probably get someone to fulfill the kink you're obsessing about but are unlikely to find somebody who's somehow equally interested in as yourself.

A problem is human traficing, but that's exactly why the taboo needs lifting. If people can have a sex job, be safe and self supporting and a tax paying member of society there's only upsides.

The insecurity and frustration in (mainly) young guys that need to get laid but 'would never pay for sex' out of some moral point of view is very detrimental to male-female relations. If this were more socially acceptable it would be of benefit to society.

Giving public speeches. It's always been something that I'm weirdly good at!

Not understanding every ADJ (abbreviation du jour) people have made up for faster thumb typing.

Being naked.