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[-] glimse@lemmy.world 52 points 11 months ago

The person who wrote this clearly isn't familiar with rich people. Billionaires and multimillionaires do this stuff. McMansions are for the poor millionaires.

The ultra rich use imported marble for their bathrooms. They fly in the best plaster artist in the country to make a mural in the foyer. The butler's pantry is lined with $100/sqft wallpaper. The desks are made of rare Italian old growth hardwood.

Some of it is gaudy, some of it is tasteful. But it's hard to comprehend just how expensive everything in their houses are. They spend a million or two dollars on AV alone.

Source: I was a pro AV commissioner/programmer for a long time. Fun fact: AV was deemed "essential work" during lockdown. Another fun fact: rich people stopped tipping entirely during lockdown.

[-] SARGE@startrek.website 12 points 11 months ago

I can tell you exactly how much every single one of those things is worth once their mansions are burned to the ground.

[-] glimse@lemmy.world 15 points 11 months ago

The stone might be salvageable

[-] peregrin5@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago

Doesn't matter. Most of their money is in the market anyway. The rest is just the cream.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Don't burn it. Museums that exist for the masses to be able to access

[-] Doctor_Satan@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

Many years ago I was doing carpentry in a mansion on Kiawah Island, and the owner had brought back these huge clam shells from Greece that he turned into bathroom sinks.

[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

Whenever I play minecraft I always play survival mode. Creative mode just doesn’t interest me.

Being super rich and filling one’s house with expensive shit sounds like creative mode.

It just sounds so boring.

“Your objective: spend at least $3M on this room”

“Ooh I bet I can find some coasters that cost me $50k! ooh goody”

[-] glimse@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

All of the examples I gave were real things I saw and the only one I really liked was the plaster artist. I'd definitely pay someone for something like that if I won the lottery.

Another expensive thing I saw that I really liked was the hallway overlooking a client's full-sized basement basketball court that had 5 or so kinetic sculptures on the wall. That dude had great taste in art and definitely picked out everything himself

[-] bampop@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I suspect the tipping point here is when you can get around to employing someone to have good taste and imagination, and take a real interest in artisanship on your behalf.

[-] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 26 points 11 months ago

That's what the rich used to do.

Look at stuff like Chippendale furniture, or those pineapple newel posts. Once upon a time those were hand carved. Not only would they be made from exotic wood, but you had to pay a craftsman to waste his entire life doing that shit.

[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 22 points 11 months ago

Rich people pay me lots of money to reupholster their ugly, boring-ass beigey-grey furniture to make it look..... same ol' boring beigey-grey. Then they display it In their giant beige house.

Makes me want to fucking scream. Rich boomers have absolutely no fucking taste.

[-] MintyFresh@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

I was always a fan of that crimson faux leather and velvet they put in cars in the 80's. When I strike it rich you can upholster me awful red furniture. It gonna be gaudy AF.

[-] 0ops@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago

It was the contrast. "Oh look, a boring old 80's sedan in white". *Opens the door, gets slapped in the face with redness *. I love that shit and it needs to come back

[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 4 points 11 months ago

Gaudy is fun af! I'd absolutely do it!

[-] Obi@sopuli.xyz 18 points 11 months ago

I still have parts of my business doing luxury real estate photo and videography. They ALL have the same shit. They all have the same heavy black anodised metal door leading into the living room, the qooker tap, the green egg BBQ (that they probably never use) and the Sonos/B&O sound system. They all have the same "art" or close enough, same cars, etc etc. They're definitely going through a checklist of "this thing is expensive and popular among my peers, I shall have it at any cost!".

[-] MagnyusG@lemmy.world 12 points 11 months ago

lol, I can almost guarantee they were watching this video lmao https://youtu.be/n5x7GLl-mMo

[-] nulluser@lemmy.world 12 points 11 months ago

"Maybe rich people should build weird fountains, again."

https://youtu.be/cz231Zi8Z7g

"The Wasserspiele of Bergpark Wilhelmshöhe are 300 years old, powered entirely by gravity, and entertaining tourists. As legacies for rich people go, there are far worse ones."

[-] wuzzlewoggle@feddit.org 9 points 11 months ago

Been saying this for years. Todays rich people are fucking bad at being rich. It's truly a skill issue.

[-] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 10 points 11 months ago

If billionaires were building libraries and colleges and such, they wouldn't be so bad. Still bad, but at least we'd be getting something.

Today's ultra rich are more into bunkers and are just soulless, selfish, and frankly kind of stupid.

[-] alcibiades@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

That’s capitalism for you.

I think those gilded age people were still basing their beliefs on a very old idea of what wealth is supposed to be. The elite of Ancient Greece and Rome who would often fund public works projects. The gilded age industrialists really wanted to show the rest of the world how powerful they were. America wasn’t the same global power it was today and they were proving to the “old world” that they could rival them in beauty and wealth.

Modern billionaires have started to realize that if they controlled the government more than their predecessors, they could make more money. Their version of public works, museums, and gardens is a restructure of their role in society so they can become kings.

https://www.dailygrail.com/2024/10/the-technocratic-conspiracy-how-tech-tycoons-plan-to-disrupt-democracy-and-become-the-new-rulers-of-the-world/

[-] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

Forget fountains and statues; I wish we'd go back to rich people one-upping each other by creating public parks and forests named after themselves.

[-] daw@feddit.org 1 points 11 months ago

Kassel is insanely underrated

[-] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

The tumblr user thinks the rich people live in McMansions

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

The user is Finnish, so they might not know that much about the US rich people

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

My billionaire ex’s family loved truffle oil on shit at restaurants. Rich does not equal taste at all.

[-] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I've never had truffle oil before. Maybe it is really good

[-] Akasazh@feddit.nl 7 points 11 months ago

Nope it's reminiscent of burning rubber and it's a flavor that drowns almost everything else out. A consommer tv program in my country found out that they don't even use real truffels in the making.

But it sounds expensive and is instantly recognizable by anyone. Just like the aesthetics of the rich, another poster was referring to. Loud, bland and very recognizable as 'expensive'.

[-] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 11 months ago

I have this small bottle of olive oil with white truffles.

You only use a tiny bit of it at a time, only at the very end of cooking (otherwise the soft parts of the aroma just evaporate) and in my experience with it, it really only works well with beef and mushrooms (the best spaghetti bolognese I ever ate was when I tried adding this stuff to a normal bollognese sauce recipe).

In practice it's not really expensive because even a small bottle will last ages since you use very little of it at a time (I often use it for steak, and the actual meat is several times more expensive than the few droplets of it I use to give it a twist).

But yeah, I bet the nouveau riche types just use it (in all the wrong ways) because they think that's the kind of thing rich people are supposed use (same with stuff like caviar - which by the way is not really that impressive - or lobster - less tasty than normal shrimp, IMHO). It dovetails with another thing I notice when living in Britain about how people dress: the people from old money actually dress in quite simple looking ways, but their clothing is all good quality, whilst the ones gaudilly dressed and ostentatiously displaying expensive jewelry and branded luxury goods are either, nouveau rich (i.e. money without the actual educational and cultural background) people who think they're rich but have no idea just how far from real wealth they are and people trying to immitate how they think the rich look like.

[-] Akasazh@feddit.nl 3 points 11 months ago

Yeah there can be oils and mayo that actually contains truffels, but on the whole they are usually artificially flavored.

Real truffels are intense in flavor, but don't block out other flavor like those artificial flavors. It can be an awesome additive, but due to being expensive it's often over used. In the type of money over substance way you described.

[-] Manifish_Destiny@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

The vast majority is fake, and basically just a chemical.

[-] ReginaPhalange@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

Here's a rule of thumb for you, if you put truffle oil on stuff - it's already too much truffle oil.

[-] Postmortal_Pop@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

I'm equally pissed off that we get billionaire tech mogul taking over the government but he doesn't even have a volcano island populated with goons or a giant skull base.

[-] miss_demeanour@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 11 months ago
  • that we're aware of...

plus - Epstein's isle.

[-] shadowedcross@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago

This would be the issue if I were rich, I'd want to spend so much money supporting people that I'd probably no longer be rich.

[-] jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago

Fun fact, the grand prize for the largest privately owned house in the US [still] goes to George Washington Vanderbilt II, who commissioned construction of the Biltmore Estate in 1889.

At 178,926 sqft. (16,622.8 m^2^), it is only slightly smaller than the average Walmart Supercenter.

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

So what you're saying is that I'm doing better than he is because I'm living in the back of a Walmart.

[-] El_Azulito@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

This is where both traveling outside your own village and generational wealth come into play.

[-] Lexam@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

They still do shit like this. They make the crafts people sign NDAs so they can't talk about their work.

[-] crmsnbleyd@sopuli.xyz 1 points 11 months ago

If I was rich I'd I'd try my hardest so nobody goes hungry ever

[-] humandotexe@sopuli.xyz 1 points 11 months ago

Id uninstall people from outside.server for an elite class that actually spent opulently on the artisan class.

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 0 points 11 months ago

Keuhkopussirotta is a great username

[-] lepinkainen@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Yours isn’t bad either 🇫🇮💪🏼

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