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[-] ertai@programming.dev 1 points 1 day ago

I quit discord a year ago for Matrix or XMPP. never looked back.

[-] Zerush@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 days ago

Element is a good alternative, OpenSource and federated

[-] umbrella@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 days ago

soooo, honest opinions of discord users here: hows matrix nowadays? what are the other options?

[-] scholar@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

It really depends on how you use Discord. Matrix was never trying to be a Discord alternative so for some usecases it's fine, but for a place to hang out with your friends and play video games it's not.

Element x is pretty solid but not perfect, matrix-rust-sdk needs to have desktop clients, servers need to support all the new stuff, I give element 5 years before it's a top tier messenger

[-] ModernRisk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 174 points 4 days ago

The moment this becomes an obligation for each person, no matter what, I’ll just quit Discord. I’m tired of stuff like this.

If people want to do bad stuff, they will find a way no matter what anyway.

[-] shneancy@lemmy.world 68 points 4 days ago

there's already real time AI aging filters, once they realise this doesn't work it's going to be IDs next, i'm so sick of this bullshit

if a kid wants to find porn, they're going to find porn, no amount of laws is going to stop them, but the more laws there are the more safe websites and online spaces to explore the new feelings will be inaccessible to them, leaving only the worst possible resources to be exposed to as they discover their sexuality. people writing those laws behave as if they've entirely forgotten how it was to be a teen, nor have met a teen in decades

[-] phdepressed@sh.itjust.works 32 points 4 days ago

I mean at least in the US the median congressional age is 64.7 so yeah gramps doesn't remember being that age much less having internet access. Doesn't consider that you can't find porn mags in the woods anymore.

[-] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 12 points 3 days ago

And "porn" means anything pro LGBT

[-] shneancy@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago

people downvoting you need some more context i believe

conservative leadership's bigotry isn't just all yelling about gay frogs, there's subtlety to some of their tactics. Two things are happening at once here - banning of sexual things, harsher punishments for sexual offenders, broadening the definition of what sexual offences even are, and sexualisation of LGBTQ folks, fearmongering, "think of the children", implications that transgender people are all perverts (why else would bathrooms or drag queens story times be such big issues?). queer people are being pushed back into the margins, just their mere existence is being pushed to be viewed as "erotic" and "inappropriate for children"

though obviously LGBTQ people are not porn, i hope that goes without saying, the same people who want to ban porn are the ones working very hard to paint queer people as somehow innately "adult only"

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[-] TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zip 36 points 4 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

For a brief moment, I had a a FB/Instagram account for testing purposes. After about a week, Meta started asking to see my face on camera. Needless to say, that experiment hit a brick wall.

I was just following and liking stuff here and there. Didn’t even post anything, but apparently that was suspicious enough for Meta.

[-] Zerush@lemmy.ml 16 points 4 days ago

A Trump photo in front of the cam.

[-] TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zip 20 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

They thought of that. It has to be a video and you have to move your head around as if you’re setting up face ID. Not creepy at all. Then again, this is Meta we’re talking about, so it shouldn’t come as a surprise.

[-] EngineerGaming@feddit.nl 13 points 3 days ago
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[-] misterdoctor@lemmy.world 93 points 4 days ago

Future headline: “Discord users begin testing Discord alternatives”

[-] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 20 points 4 days ago

Already started. Revolt seems like it could be a near 1 to 1 replacement soon.

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[-] doodledup@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Please give me a federated, self-hosted Discord alternative! I'm tired of these bullshit platforms.

[-] dRLY@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 days ago

Not federated, but Revolt can be self-hosted and is very similar to Discord in the look and feel from what I have seen (I have it installed, but haven't tried getting friends to install it and am not hosting). So it could be worth looking into for folks that are used to Discord.

[-] doodledup@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

It's not federated, the developer is specifically against federation. He didn't even support self-hosting properly and officially, until the community made pullrequests in this regard themselves. Revolt is mainly made to be hosted by the developer himself. Probably just another Discord. Open-sourcing the code doesn't do anything.

[-] dRLY@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago

Good to know information, I haven't looked into it beyond installing it to see how similar it was. Still could be a starting point for some folks that have the option to self-host and more specifically have large friend groups that have issues with only liking the UI of Discord. A very specific scenario for sure, but still nice to have options if one like that were to happen.

[-] cobbland@lemmy.ml 78 points 4 days ago

Controversially, I cheer on the quickening of the inshitification of Discord. The sooner more folks are convinced to move away from that place, the better. I hope for a return to indexable and searchable old school forums (or their modern equivalents—Discourse is so nice).

[-] absquatulate@lemmy.world 29 points 3 days ago

Problem is folks won't move, they're too entrenched. Look at twitter, it's still going ok despite having been a cesspit for years now. Or reddit, where some moved, but they moved to yet another enshittified platform: Discord. The amount of crap people ( especially the ones on discord ) will put up with is immense before they even consider switching.

[-] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 3 days ago

I think when enough live streaming influencers switch to Revolt or whatever else, many people will follow.

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[-] ragas@lemmy.ml 26 points 3 days ago

Discord was shit from the beginning. Enshitification is useless here.

Sadly parts of my social group are currently migrating to discord.

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[-] shaggyb@lemmy.world 29 points 3 days ago

Cool. I'm out then.

[-] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago
[-] Kualdir@feddit.nl 38 points 4 days ago

Reminder that we have a european alternative called Revolt we can always switch to!

Another alternative is Element for chatting and Teamspeak for Calls/Screenshare!

[-] 2xsaiko@discuss.tchncs.de 24 points 4 days ago

Element/Matrix does calls and screen share also by the way!

(Teamspeak can do screen share? That’s news to me!)

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[-] millie@beehaw.org 3 points 2 days ago

Element really needs to get push to talk. It's an incredibly basic feature to be missing, and for me personally and I'm sure others the lack of it is a deal breaker.

[-] nimpnin@sopuli.xyz 36 points 4 days ago
[-] Ledericas@lemm.ee 9 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

facebook does the same thing, except also requires a photo ID too. it seems alot right wingers have migrated to these 2 platforms so they can control narratives better, better off staying away from these platforms.

[-] TrojanRoomCoffeePot@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

How am I going to rip on them until they have aneurysms if I'm not on there too?

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 1 points 2 days ago

I cant even get in my discord because I never get the verification email. Each time I have to contact customer support. F that platform.

[-] 800XL@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago
[-] boreengreen@lemm.ee 18 points 3 days ago

Need alternatives to have built-in, easy to use screenshare with audio. And of course great noise filtering on voice chats.

[-] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 13 points 3 days ago

The downfall of discord

[-] Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 24 points 4 days ago

I've always hated Discord since the very beginning. At least now I have yet another really good reason.

Never used it, never will. Ventrilo for lyfe.

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[-] shath@hexbear.net 18 points 4 days ago

oh sweet discord phrenology

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