[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 8 months ago

What's the difference between befriending someone who's worse off than you who works in the same building vs someone off the street? Your ability to help them is ~ the same, but you could give them a person to talk to.

They're not aliens, or pets to be taken care of. If a grown-ass man wants to chat with another grown-ass man about something mutually interesting to both, then why bring prerequisites into the equation?

Now, if it's a "we hang out every single night and discuss finances and aspirations and such" situation, sure, I can see a disconnect if the higher-up person doesn't try to help, but your comment almost sounds like a internet-fueled caste system when taken too literally.

[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Treat the rest as a dedicated, specifically-timed "thing to do" instead of just "time I need to kill until I pick this weight up again."

Timers are helpful, as people mentioned, but stretching, evaluating how that last set went/ how next set needs to go, changing weights, and walking around to catch your breath are great ways to stay mostly on track.

And if you check Twitter after switching songs or something? That's fine. Working out slowly > not working out, so unless you're annoying other gymgoers with 20-min squat-rack scroll sessions , I wouldn't sweat a mental lapse.

EDIT: Ope, I think I misread your comment to mean "between sets" and not just "going to the gym," my b.

It HAS to be a habit. Go to the gym because it's novel and you want to try it out, then try your damnedest to make it a routine. Make it feel weird to not work out. If you fall off the wagon, try again.

If neurotypicals fail to be consistent (see every New Year's resolution), you can give yourself enough grace to stumble, too.

[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 8 months ago

Similar experience for my xm4s. Great sound, they're comfy, but the app is dogshit and the buttons/ touch controls physically hurt me to use.

[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 8 months ago

Been using a Branch chair for ~2 years after having a cheap ikea chair for 1. Definitely notice the difference. You're going to want some adjustability, especially with lumbar support and arm height/ width.

Otherwise, the biggest thing to feel better is just getting up every hour or so to move around. I try to go for a walk/ run once a day since leaving retail and losing 10k steps of physical activity.

By that same token, sit-stand desks are nice if you have the spare budget. Otherwise, just get a nice chair and exercise.

[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 9 months ago

You sound really sure about your understanding of statistics and probability, and I didn't think anything I can say can impact that. I'm going to defer to the experts, but you do you I guess.

[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 9 months ago

The thing about long-term predictions (at least ones that get publicity) is that usually the goal is to change them, so few have been "proven". No one is printing stories about how an isolated set of rocks is going to be decayed by X% due to weather, because no one cares.

Except birth rates aren't physics that will progress if left alone, they're dominated by cultural choices that are impacted by economics and governmental policy.

Exactly. Those are the factors that are being considered when making these predictions. If economic factors and policies are making it harder to have kids, then birth rates drop, which is what we're seeing now. What else is going to have as much of an effect?

These predictions don't exist to take bets on. They're not scrying into the future. They're just binoculars that point to where we're going.

[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 9 months ago

Okay, I think the practical reasons you gave are sound. Pre-dividing a userbase into more chunks than necessary makes the site seem smaller than it is. And trying to "force" the same subs that were on Reddit into Lemmy prevents uniquely-Lemmy stuff from forming.

And the "need" for white people twitter is basically "if we give everyone but white people a twitter space they'll get mad and say it's racist" lmao. I 100% agree that it doesn't talk about "white issues" anywhere near the same degree as other communities talk about what they face.

With that said, I'm still not seeing a reason why the sub shouldn't exist. I might eventually agree that it's not necessary, it's redundant, or it's not funny... But that just means micro blog memes needs to get better posts and drive interest. Both are silly little communities with silly little posts, and each can right for more users.

[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Sorry about the long post, it's mostly quotes!

...we're on Lemmy where none of those communities are big enough to necessitate separating them.

For now. Unless you're assuming Lemmy will be small forever, in which case why are we here to begin with?

I also completely disagree that posts from other races don't do well. People of all races LOVED blackpeopletwitter because it was funny as hell.

Yes, because there was an explicitly-carved-out community that was able to express themselves within the context of the black experience. Trying to introduce race-centric memes to a general audience is a recipe for disaster, as it's really hard to judge intent.

The main dividing line on Twitter posts is political vs non-political.

Yup. And race has an effect on how one is affected by politics. This feels like the conservative mindset of "there are two sexualities: straight, and political". (Mostly kidding, but there's truth in there).

Plus, we're talking about screenshots of tweets...not actual discourse.

Comments. Comments are where discourse happens. A screenshot is posted with a hot take, shared experience, meme, whatever, and people talk about it. It's an echo of what goes on in actual Twitter comments, but here.

[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 9 months ago

You're correct, and I agree. It does shift dems to the right slightly. But again, it's hyperbole to say dems are now "radical" on the border, which is what I was responding to.

[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 9 months ago

As someone who deals with business analytics/ budgeting, "not meeting sales expectations" is a 1:1 translation to "bad sales." Sony has R&D, manufacturing, and other "static" costs that need to be recouped with more unit sales--decent isn't enough when you're balancing everything around great.

(This translates to much of peak-covid -> "post"-covid business decision backlash. So much short-term thinking based on the economy being temporarily on crack with everyone at home).

[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 9 months ago

Considering the awards are nigh-useless anyway, sacrificing some "credibility" to call out shitty business seems worth it imo.

It's not like it's a "haha look how silly this is" joke--it's a "you all fucked this up though for the public to hate you, do better" joke.

[-] MeepsTheBard@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 9 months ago

Gonna wait for performance info at launch, and grab if it runs well. There's basically no point waiting for professional reviews, since it's such a love-it-or-hate-it gameplay loop. I really liked the first one (doing a replay now), so unless it comes to light that it's now a MG:Survive clone or something, I should be alright 🤷

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