[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Fuck Kotaku, and fuck Alyssa Mercante. It was not nice knowing you. Thank you for the good news.

[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Shit on men. Call the conservatives nazis when it’s the Black, Asian, and Latino voters who carried this election. Repeat quotes out of context. Spread lies. That’s how we get more people on our side, right??

[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago

https://youtu.be/2fagLjawRXM

Jack Reacher. S02E07 Soul coughing. Super Bon Bon

[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago

Should we report them for attempting commit fraud for posing as an official complaint office?

[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

I agree with you 100%. It was hyped up by online buzz and it was a big disappointment to me.

[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

How considerate of them. I don’t expect the whiney asses who’ve been bitching and lying for the last eight years to stop regardless of who wins. What will they do without their core personality trait?

[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

“Everyone but me is a moron” is the mark of the moron.

I’ve heard it phrased: “If you’re surrounded by assholes. Maybe you’re the asshole.”

[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 39 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

7 years together. 30’s. Grown ass adult who hasn’t figured herself out yet. Selfish behavior. Probably more selfishness on the way.

Perspective one: you got robbed of 7 years because you hitched your wagon to the wrong star. Our most precious thing we have is our time on this earth.

Perspective two: you dodged a bullet. This could have happened farther down the road and been way more damaging. What if you had kids? What if you were in your 60’s?

Perspective Three: maybe it was good while it lasted. Maybe you continue to be friends.

It’s gonna hurt for a long while. Spending that long relying on, caring for, and sharing your life with someone is gonna make a serious wound that’s very slow to heal. It may never heal completely.

My advice is to extricate yourself as fast as possible and pretend they are dead. Seriously. Grieve. Rip the bandaid off. Send her belongings to her. Remove names from any leases, utilities, or other shared accounts. Leave no reason for future contact. Is this someone you want to be friends with (and their new partner)? If not then cut all ties and change your number and socials. Refuse further contact. Make it nearly impossible to get in touch with you. Guess what? That 7 years can be a black hole for her as well. You really don’t want to be contacted later by this person when they feel like they need validation, approval, or forgiveness, or at your weakest point try and get you back. Mourn the loss of the idealized person you thought she was and do your best to move on in as healthy a way as you can muster. Figure out which mutual friends are yours and hers and cut the chaff as amicably as you can. Most importantly rebuild. Do not stagnate. What just happened to you is not a slight offense. It’s a killing blow to some people. Your foundation was just shaken. Don’t let it be your downfall. You can forgive on your own timeline and it won’t require letting her know. After what they took from you you owe them no more than the basic courtesy of an civil split, but nothing beyond that point. Cut all ties. Do not contact. Most importantly don’t let it ruin your trust in your next relationship.

[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 59 points 3 months ago

I’m glad for this. This show is keeping the spirit of Star Trek alive.

[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 76 points 5 months ago

Die a hero or live long enough to become a villain. Kurt punched his card before it could happen to him too.

[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 36 points 5 months ago

And then he yawned.

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[-] Mellow12@lemmy.world 40 points 6 months ago

We can sell 80 percent of the screen WITHOUT inducing seizures.

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In the path of totality at Carbondale IL. Carbondale Reservoir. Near Southern Illinois University. Thank you Carbondale!

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