Calling bullshit, this post is written in the default MS Word font and laid out weird.
Or maybe I'm disabled, lol. Who knows? It's not like it's my life or anything. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
If male and female are assigned purely based on physical anatomy, does it really matter?
No one in that person's life would consider them male and doctors would treat them based on their sex characteristics - they may have testes but they wouldn't be external.
I have never been karyotyped and I'm willing to bet most people haven't either; your sex is assumed based on your outward appearance even when your genitals are not observable.
I really don't think that having a Y chromosome makes you male when you literally have a vagina, you know? Especially when you could go your whole life without knowing.
I'm not really interested in creating a detailed write-up/tutorial. But generally speaking, the client doesn't matter. I'd go with Revolution but if Goguma works for you, use that.
The main thing that you'll need to choose is what server you want to join - you can search online for what IRC servers and channels are good for pirated content. FMHY has resources on this too.
Ultimately, learning how to find these answers on your own will make things go smoother for you. It has literally never been easier to teach yourself how to do something than right now. Good luck.