[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 4 points 2 months ago

Yes, definitely. I did have a lot of symptoms of trauma as a child, in hindsight. This provided an explanation for that in which my parents weren't blamed for it and it was just all on me again.

[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 4 points 2 months ago

The same thing happened to me. I did not know it is a common thing! I was told I am autistic, but it turns out I have CPTSD. I think telling me I was autistic it was just an easy was to blame the ways in which I responded to being traumatised on me again.

[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I am not an AI. I am not sure how to prove that, but I am not. I am a scientific researcher, but in another field than the medical field. Maybe my scientific background shows in the way I communicate? Also, English is not my native language, so that might be why I sound different as well.

The reason I checked out so much research on obesity (as well as on being underweight) is that many of my family members suffer from eating disorders. I lost my little sister to anorexia a couple of years ago and my mother had it. However, some of my family members are obese as well, also due to eating disorders. I think trying to understand why people eat in a certain way and to help them instead of just judging them, might change things. And for me, scientific work and data is the best way to understand things. Maybe that gives you a bit of understanding where I am coming from and why I am interested in this subject.

If something is the result of research, it cannot just be called bullshit and set aside. It is not just another opinion that you can just decide to disagree with, considering the care that usually has been taken to reduce bias and ensure validity. Of course, research can be wrong and it is important to have a scientific debate. However, such a debate should be based on clear reasoning and arguments and other research results.

I was not pitying you. I was being compassionate. There is a difference between the two. I tried to be kind and understanding. That's all.

Edit: I also wanted to mention that the study I linked refers to a study on women who were pregnant during the famine in WWII in the Netherlands. Maybe that is what you meant.

[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 4 points 8 months ago

That is a beautiful story. :-)

[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 4 points 9 months ago

Egg retrieval as part of my IVF treatment. So, lots of fun.

[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 4 points 11 months ago

Yes, it is bullshit. You do not get black curly hair, red lips and earrings by going through the chimney.

[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 4 points 11 months ago

Yes, sorry! I was a bit tired when writing this and did not check the text afterwards. :-(

[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 4 points 1 year ago

Let's try to race them!

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[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 4 points 1 year ago

I think they mean Artificial General Intelligence

[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 5 points 1 year ago

Als jullie de kuilen maar weer dicht gooien als jullie Zeeland terug geven na de zomer.

[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 4 points 1 year ago

I think that is the most negative scenario of what could happen. I mean, you hear and see the effects of climate change more and more around you. I am also extremely worried about it. But I have still some hope that we find ways to at least keep it liveable. I do see some progress. It is not fast enough, but I hope that it will go faster once the effects become more obvious and more people actually feel the pressure. I do not think we can complete avoid climate change anymore, but we still might be able to mitigate the most horrible effects. That is what I see in the scientific papers on it, at least.

The only sure way we will not make it, is by giving up.

[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 4 points 1 year ago

I found it really scary. It think it is horrible to have that every night. I used to do the same thing. However, I found that the only times I felt I needed to check, I was sleeping. So, being unsure about whether I am asleep is actually already a good indicator.

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