[-] elsif@lemm.ee 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Ooh I didn't think about it like that - but then again I was a bit of a homebody even in my 20's lol

Definitely depends on your social circle then: my group of friends were mostly 9-5 and did stuff together in the evening, so it felt like I was always missing out.

[-] elsif@lemm.ee 13 points 9 months ago

I consider second shift to be worse - I worked 3-11 for awhile and its just depressing. You wake up and can do things, but you're just waiting to go to work. When you get out, it's pretty late and most people are going to bed.

9-5 allows me to have my relaxation time at the end of the day, along with everyone else. Any other shift feels lonely, and like you're off-sync from the rest of society.

[-] elsif@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

https://i.imgur.com/p4SgYI8.jpg

Used deepai.org, didn't really mess with the options. It kind of looks like a Magic card but with unreadable text

[-] elsif@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

Of course! I'm not saying reviews are pointless, just that it's ok to dislike a critically acclaimed game, or find value in a game isn't as well received.

If a game looks interesting, less than stellar reviews aren't going to stop me from buying it, but it might make me wait for sale.

Ultimately, your game experience is entirely your own.

[-] elsif@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Second this! I appreciate game critics and routinely factor their opinions into whether I'll buy a game sooner rather than later. But sometimes there are imperfect games you connect with, and 10/10 games that you don't mind missing.

Even in terms of art: it's helpful to read a critic's impression on an art piece, but it's also worth it to experience it yourself and form your own opinions.

[-] elsif@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago

What brand is that chair? Looks so comfy! Also, your cat's name is amazing

[-] elsif@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm the oldest. I have a younger sister and brother.

We're all close and extremely comfortable with each other, but they're closer with each other than me, given their closeness in age.

I don't live at home with them anymore, but our relationship always feels natural and picks up where it left off even after being away for so long. I think we've been fortunate in that we've never felt to the need to compete with each other, and I think of them as a constant in my life that that I can always count on

Edit: removed some age info

[-] elsif@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

I watch a lot of food shows, and he always comes across as a bit douchey and arrogant - but idk how much of that is a personality for TV.

I went to Bobby's Burger Palace once though, and it was pretty good!

[-] elsif@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago

I knew this was AccidentalRenaissance but I still did a double take at the horse. Something about the lighting makes it look slightly "textured" like a painting. Beautiful shot!

[-] elsif@lemm.ee 150 points 1 year ago

An oversized poncho cape from the local Goodwill. It was woven in different shades of blue and while I'd never wear it outside, I've used it as a wearable blanket at home for a few years now.

I found out it was actually hand made, and costs 300+ USD from the original shop. Bonus points, I feel like a wizard when I wear it

[-] elsif@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I know what you mean. Its a hard habit to break out of though - I always feel like I should exhaust other resources before asking questions.

When I ask things without looking it up first, it feels like I'm not doing my best to solve my own problem before "bothering" others

[-] elsif@lemm.ee 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It might be an age thing - I'm 32, game as a hobby, and work in software. 80% of my coworkers play games to some extent, and most are in their twenties to mid thirties.

But when I used to work in healthcare, I think only a few of my coworkers shared the hobby.

Generally, I think the younger the generation is, the more acceptable and "normal" gaming is. It's not a guarantee, but it's definitely more common.

Edit: I'd just be yourself and do as you like. There's definitely people out there who share your hobby. Some of the older members of a long-standing guild I'm a part of are in their 50's or retired. I will say that the gender ratio skews mostly male for older gamers though. The women I know who are interested in games are all sub 40 (this is just a personal observation, your results may vary)

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