cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/11088
Because I think sexuality is too much to be asked for. She needs marriage, responsibility, pledge for the commitment by the man also.
Well... I'm not sure if Elon and Trump drama are entertainment or real.
Could you please kindly tell me what IRS stands for?
One of my friends is from Canada.
Those troops remind me of a CSGO skin.
I don't agree to be part of this survey that also promised fiat money in return. Yes, I am being honest.
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/7585
There are two kinds of people that I found.
The first kind is the people who rebel against God.
That first kind also has two types.
The first type disagrees and rebels against God; they will tell others that they do not agree with God. The other type claims they are being kind and peaceful and do follow God's words, while they are acting rebelliously toward God.
The second kind of person I found is people who actually worship and submit to God. If they push their limits, including doing what God forbids or something sinful, they repent to God.
Which kind of partner do you choose to be with? I choose the second one. You?
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/7167
Days, weeks, or months ago (if that's correct), I subscribed to a managed hosting service.
One of the apps is Lemmy, which I use more frequently than other apps like micro-blog.
Firstly, I paid less than the monthly price because it was days to weeks before the first fixed due date: June 1st.
Then, I was saving my money and doing some business by helping my mother sell and market her gardening materials.
A few days before the first due date, I had more than enough to cover the upcoming major managed hosting service fees.
In Lemmy, it's easier for me to assess whether my opinions or knowledge are compatible or agreeable with the public, partly because of the upvotes, downvotes, scores, and upvote percentage features.
I also experienced in Lemmy that there are many differing opinions; some genuinely support me, while others using Lemmy made me think they need to improve their online attitude and behavior.
I also have the idea or suggestion that Lemmy developers should make a built-in poll feature available, where the poll could include options such as: only local Lemmy instance users can vote (for example, for instance rule changes and policies), and another option allowing users from Lemmy software, whether local or fediverse, to vote.
My Fediverse lifelong journey is still my choice. I find that those very popular social networks aren't relevant for me, such as Reddit, Instagram, Facebook, and X. They are not relevant for me.
It's because they're closed source; I can't view or audit them fully. I have to trust their reputation and terms of service alone.
Paying for managed hosting is awesome because these Fediverse or ActivityPub protocol software and even the client apps are usually free, libre, and open source (FLOSS). At least this gives me a chance to own or rent them as I see fit, instead of blindly following big tech.
Thank you for reading my long essay. Yes, I used AI to correct my grammar.
• My savings for the 1st July due:
• Pokémon pic:
I wish the lemm.ee maintainers, mods, and admins, who will soon be retiring from their roles, a good rest and a happy retirement.
That I ate fried rice + chicken for lunch
Just stay at home and using Lemmy 😄
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/3256
Summary
I Updated My Server Rules — To Protect and Include Everyone
Hello friends,
I’ve just updated the community rules for Kadai Kupi Space — the Lemmy instance I host from Sabah, Malaysia.
These updates are made with love and care, to make this space more inclusive, safe, and respectful — especially for people who use AI tools to help with writing, communication, or learning.
Why the Update?
Some people use AI to:
- Help write or fix grammar (especially if English isn’t their first language)
- Express thoughts clearly (like neurodivergent people)
- Translate between languages
- Be more polite or confident in their writing
I believe these tools can help us join more conversations — not block them.
So, I updated our rules to protect people who use AI responsibly. No one should be banned or downvoted just because they used an AI to help. That’s unfair, especially if the content is kind, respectful, and useful.
What’s New in the Rules?
Clear support for AI as an accessibility tool, not just a “tech thing”
Rules against harassing or mocking people for using AI
We now hold people accountable if they abuse their moderation powers to remove AI-generated content without a real reason
You can still use AI — as long as it’s honest, respectful, and not used to mislead or harm others
We All Deserve a Voice
This update is for people who:
- Are autistic, disabled, or neurodivergent
- Are learning English or another language
- Want to be more thoughtful with their words
- Use AI tools to participate more fully online
If AI helps you communicate better — you are welcome here.
If you don’t use AI, that’s okay too — just respect those who do.
Thank you for being part of this small space.
Let’s keep it kind, weird, warm — and safe for everyone.
– Kalvin / @kaeurenne
Admin of Kadai Kupi Space
📄 Want to read the full updated rules?
Check them out here: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/legal
I use my hands to wash my back. You?
Yes, I can relate to this question. I'm originally from Sabah in northern Borneo, Malaysia, but I was born in Kuala Lumpur (Peninsular Malaysia) and raised in Perak.
The main language I've used growing up is Malay, which is Malaysia's official and most commonly spoken language. It's the language I speak daily and also the one I primarily think in. My inner monologue is mostly in Malay, though sometimes I switch to English, especially when reading, writing, or studying (I'm an IT student).
Although I’m ethnically Dusun and Rungus (indigenous groups from Sabah), I didn’t grow up speaking those native languages fluently. I’ve learned more English and Malay through school and life, and even earned a B in both. That said, I feel a strong connection to my roots and want to find ways to preserve and relearn my ancestral languages—maybe even through tech solutions.
So, to answer the question directly: I usually think in Malay, sometimes in English, and rarely in my ethnic/native languages—though I wish that were different.
Because of that cheese word, now I'm hungry 🤤. I'll have some rice and chicken curry this evening.