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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by pooh@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

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Just saying. How're yall doing, by the way?

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[-] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

Since I was summoned, might as well share some. My favourite pronoun choice is "Undecided" I went from -> Undecided to They/Them/Undecided to They/Them and then finally She/Her as my transitioning process advanced.

You'd think something as simple as clicking on a drop down menu wouldnt be a massive issue, but it forces you to confront yourself in ways that cis people just don't think about.

[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

I lasted a whole week with they/them irl (cause you can't really go with undecided there) and had to give it up immediately because it was so uncomfortable. wish we had a please don't gender me rn option IRL so I didn't have to take the plunge with she/her so fast.