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Federation be like (hexbear.net)

Too obvious to be funny, but i still wanted to draw a shitpost.

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[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

Nope, I'm with you on all that. That's also not what the comic is highlighting. Trans people exist and deserve all the rights everyone else has. Transphobes are pieces of shit and should be dealt with accordingly.

"I think Western institutions and media are not being entirely honest about their geopolitical opinions" is not like the phrasing I see from hexbear users out in the wild.

[-] Redcat@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

"I think Western institutions and media are not being entirely honest about their geopolitical opinions" is not like the phrasing I see from hexbear users out in the wild.

What you see is the logical conclusion of when you step back and realize that people are always supporting this year's war drive and claiming last year's war drive is ancient history and all in the past.

[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

You say that like a whole lot of us didn't have that realization decades ago.

No experience is universal and your logical conclusion won't be the same for everyone.

Even if it were by throwing something aggressive in the face of someone who isn't even on the same road you're just going to come off as an ass. You drive others deeper into their position rather than getting anywhere productive. Which you may not care about on the surface, but then I'd argue you're just pushing a different war drive.

[-] Redcat@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You drive others deeper into their position

You say that like they haven't held that position through multiple farcical wars.

I'm not the one driving them deeper into their position. They have chosen to do so themselves. Which is why they are more concerned about my civility than the millions starved and killed in the name of the rules based international order.

[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

they are more concerned about my civility than the millions starved and killed in the name of the rules based international order.

You say that like your know their level of concern or activity in regards to those.

Consider someone starting to consider view points beyond how they were raised. Are they more or less likely to go toward someone with inflammatory rhetoric? The concept of a pipeline is hardly a new one.

Believe it or not the world isn't divisible into two camps. Why would you not encourage people to flow towards a direction that should be inviting?

[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

Consider someone starting to consider view points beyond how they were raised.

unironically, the bullying takes work. many of the people on this website are here because they got pressured for bad takes, got shocked and confused, and stuck around to learn more. others went wow those commies are funny and ended up doing the reading. civility only protects the status quo. we live in a fucked up world and pretending it's not by masking how fucked up it is that people defend that status quo serves absolutely no one but the powerful. any tool that breaks people away from that reflexive defensive posture towards extant power is only an immeasurable good.

[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

So if it breaks one person away but twenty more say they knew they were right about all them and refuse to ever attempt to engage in discussion again, that's good?

Yeah, it's fucked. We have people insisting that trans people are grooming kids while preachers keep getting arrested for actually doing far more than the trans folks are even accused of. But if you throw a whole lot of the country into the deep end of the pool they'll just drown while they take all the lifeguards down with them. But if you can let them dip their toes in the shallow end then you may find them swimming laps before you realize.

[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

queer people started getting rights and acceptance after they started throwing bricks, not before. rights are taken, never granted. the genocidal policies will succeed in their project if they are not met forcefully. as a trans person, you can fuck all the way off - I will not be polite and civil with people who think my right to exist is open to debate. to accept the premise and engage in debate denies my own humanity. I exist, the people I love exist, and we will fight to the grave anyone who denies it. and I abso-fucking-lutely do not give a shit about the feelings of debatelords.

[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

There's a huge gap between people who think your right to exist is open to debate and a random person on the internet who doesn't know what the position of the instance is.

I pointed out that the overly polite statement in the comic is not reflective of reality and plenty of you are doing a great job of demonstrating that.

[-] marx_mentat@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

People have been nothing but patient with you in this thread. You're the one throwing vitriol and being an asshole here.

[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

Plenty of my patience has been met with thrown vitriol and asshole behavior in here too. I've tried to respond in the way I've been met. I'm not perfect and I'm sure I've failed in places but I'm also out here by myself.

[-] marx_mentat@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

I think the vast majority here are also responding to you in the way they feel they've been met as well. I can empathize with the frustration and defensiveness of being alone.

[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

once again, fuck alllllll the way off.

[-] Redcat@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

You say that like your know their level of concern or activity in regards to those.

it's self evident, given the issues they raise

[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

Being able to tell the concerns of a person based off limited interactions over the Internet is a skill the world has never observed.

Being willing to assume you know such things, however, is incredibly common

[-] Redcat@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

person posts about the civility of people complaining about NATO led mass murders

you can't just conclude they care more about civility than NATO's warmongering

thats a very lemmy.midwest thing to say

[-] marx_mentat@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

Are you saying you are not aware of "concern trolling"?

[-] CyborgMarx@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

is not like the phrasing I see from hexbear users out in the wild.

What's the phrasing, show an example or two, don't just assert back your shit up bro

[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

Its so funny how you guys became so used to being able to live in an echo chamber of western capitalist propaganda on reddit, then moved here, then had that bubble popped by us and lemmygrad, then became INCREDIBLY DESPERATE to get away from opinions you previously were sheltered from. Its just a funny reaction to witness.

Probably not the most extreme example but it was relatively easy to find

[-] CyborgMarx@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

uh, am I supposed to see an issue with that statement?

Dougee we've gotten transphobes, pedos, racists and incels coming into our instance, if that's the worst you got from us, consider yourself lucky

[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

So because some people are so much worse it's ok to be crappy? That doesn't really jive with me. We should all always be trying to be better than we have been before.

[-] Zodiark@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

So because some people are so much worse it's ok to be crappy

Yeah. People reciprocate affection and vitriol, and being civil towards bigots is not a virtue. It's just a point of exploitation for bad faith posters to exacerbate divisions and legitimize their bigotries.

Also, it's the internet. Log off. I set my feed to local to avoid the other lemmy instances. Do that on midwest.social please.

That doesn't really jive with me. We should all always be trying to be better than we have been before.

The vulgarity and dismissiveness come forth in Hexbear after an established pattern from a user, native or visiting, of bad faith arguments, bigotry, and apologia for anticommunist institutions, policies, and states. People who come from other instances, that act in the aforementioned manner, aren't starting from the position of blind and unwilful ignorance curious of the world, political theory, or political economy and willing to know, discuss, and consider alternative perspectives.

Those bad faith posters, when discussing politics, work backwards from their conclusions. They engineer reasons for their prejudices and are unable and unwilling to overcome cognitive dissonance, reject all counterarguments as propaganda and just refer people as bots/paid shills/stooges or other dehumanizing flags to label dissidents.

If you're not a concern troll, agree to disagree, and go away. Ask your instance to defederate if its unbearable for you.

[-] CyborgMarx@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

Those "crappy" people prove the point the op you quoted was making, people in other instances ARE hyper sensitive to critiques of western capitalism, that's just an easily observable fact, and it's not rude or out of order to point it out

People in this instance including me are more than willing to engage in good faith with those curious about our politics, but there will be no toleration of bigotry or blind faith in a vicious ideology that is cooking the earth

If we're defedrated because of those principles, so be it shrug-outta-hecks

[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

is aesthetically different or semantically different? because that's pretty much what I see. people get aggro about it sometimes but the semantic content of what they're saying is still what's in the image.

[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

aesthetics can still matter. If I say I disagree with you or I say I think you're a stupid piece of trash there are people who would consider that to be aesthetically different but they convey a different message that will be received different.

[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

tone policing sucks ass. I will not be polite and civil with people who callously disregard human lives. civility is the false peace, a white, middle class sensibility that I refuse to adopt. civility masks the underlying tensions that mark our fucked up world, pretending everything is hunky dory. fuck that. bring the tensions into the light. it's only then that we stand any chance of resolving them. I'm not afraid of conflict. bring it on.

[-] Doug@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago

Where did I say to pretend that everything is hunky dory? Where have I callously disregarded human lives?

I neither can nor have the energy to try and make you do anything different than you will. But until it comes to violent revolution you're not going to change many minds with aggression.

[-] MolotovHalfEmpty@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

Where did I say to pretend that everything is hunky dory? Where have I callously disregarded human lives?

You commented in an instance you never have before to specifically ignore the issues of and then go on to undermine perfectly valid and verifiable instances of bigotry - specifically transphobia - in both the post and the comments. Instead jumping to take offense at vague criticisms of "Western instutions and media" and both sides bigots and fash with a harmless anti-bigot comic. You did this for 9 hours.

You tell me what we should assume about your intentions.

[-] marx_mentat@hexbear.net 0 points 1 year ago

If I didn't recognize the fascists I was standing next to (or their narratives) then the people getting mad at them would probably seem unreasonable to me too.

[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

And how would you go about getting someone to recognize the fascists they're standing next to for what they are in such a situation?

[-] marx_mentat@hexbear.net 0 points 1 year ago

By somehow getting them to question their old dogma and think maybe they might have been wrong. Then they might open their mind up and seek/absorb new information.

[-] Doug@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

Which you're less likely to be able to do with name calling and aggressive behavior, yes?

[-] marx_mentat@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Not for me it wasn't. I was a comfortable (but disgruntled) liberal before stumbling on CTH years and years ago (this is a new handle I made early this year). Maybe I was further along in my journey and was already primed for it but I connected with the vibe immediately. That was when I actually started my leftist academic journey in earnest and started participating/contributing to local groups/orgs.

The shitposts got me to read more books and do more stuff than being disappointed by the democratic party for years by myself ever did.

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