Having a good relationship is next to impossible if you can't love and accept yourself so these dudes are fucked. The right wing indulges emotional immaturity and hostility and a rejection of evidence. Who could have predicted that the side whose premise is most accurately summarized by Ayn Rand's solipsistic response to her own death ("actually I'm not dead the world is dead fuck all y'all!") would suck ass at the basic quid-pro-quo of being a partner.