never have i ever felt more vailidated. do you know how many times i've been shamed, browbeaten, or accused of not being capable of love for not wanting to kiss partners/family/people? Everyone always told me shit like 'its just how the world works' or 'its something you have to get used to' like its some inherent, essential part of living existence, when its just some disgusting euro shit forced on the rest of us. I hate saliva, I hate kissing, spit smells disgusting, and the number of biological fluids i want on or around me is incredibly limited and exclusive. i'm not even aro or ace as far as i can tell.