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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by thelastaxolotl@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

On this day, 4 years ago the site was first launched (then a day later the first post made), Formed from chapotraphouse remnants, the old admins decided to make a site using Lemmy as its base. Originally called chapo.chat, Hexbear has grown into one of the biggest instances in the lemmyverse.

Despite various sitewide struggle sessions, wrecker incursions from other forums and federation drama, Hexbear has keep growing strong in its 4th year, now with 4 megathreads, over 4 million comments, 300k posts and much more.

Its being great running the general megathread for a bit over 3 years, since i took over i have tried to get it mostly in time and just one unlike during the old times, i like to think i have done a decent job, plus i have also added a bit of reading material to them so you nerds can learn from them and i like to think you have been reading them garcia-cock-shotty, its also nice to see the new megathreads how they have slowing grown up to the size to the old general mega in the time of the old admins.

dont have much else to say so have a good day nerd. also

Whats has been your favorite post/event from last year (july 2023-july 2024)?

I wont lie, all the fedidrama has been fun to read, especially when libs wander here

Megathreads and spaces to hang out:

reminders:

  • πŸ’š You nerds can join specific comms to see posts about all sorts of topics
  • πŸ’™ Hexbear’s algorithm prioritizes comments over upbears
  • πŸ’œ Sorting by new you nerd
  • 🌈 If you ever want to make your own megathread, you can reserve a spot here nerd
  • 🐢 Join the unofficial Hexbear-adjacent Mastodon instance toots.matapacos.dog

Links To Resources (Aid and Theory):

Aid:

Theory:

Also 24 hours after this is posted the admins are closing the site for a day, sorry

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[-] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 4 points 4 months ago

Don't wanna dwell on this, but you have to smoke because of your partners chronic pain? Or just, like, you're addicted to some degree so being around it will be difficult even if you agreed with taking an extended T break. And you have to use while working sometimes you mentioned?

Anyway, I was on Effexor for just over a year and got off after a few months slowly lowering. It sucked. It was awful. I was dizzy, I was sweaty, I was a miserable emotional wreck for that entire couple months. I'm glad I'm off but I'm also glad I was on it, especially at the beginning much like you. I got off not because of motivation issues or emotional blunting (although if you wouldve asked my ex I had a lot of blunting lmao), but because I felt like I was in a much better place and didn't need it and could manage with therapy and the techniques we had from my sessions.

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