/c/café daily chat thread for 19 July 2023 (self.cafe)

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[-] DerpyPoint@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

I went to the other site to look for political-related posts and I really have to leave it for good now that I nuked my account and can't say anything. No point fuming over something you can't react to. Really feels like the demographics are changing once people leave for Lemmy. Time to swear off that site for good!

[-] Annoyed_Crabby 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Nice!

[-] rakyat 6 points 2 years ago

I’ve been testing a few Lemmy clients on iOS and although I still mostly use the mobile webpage as the beta apps are buggy/lacks features, some of them are looking quite nice, like Bean:

Still haven’t receive a testing link for Artemis though.

[-] Annoyed_Crabby 2 points 2 years ago

Wow, that's super clean.

[-] ruk_n_rul -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I otoh am [still] looking for a passable lemmy desktop client. I really wanted crossposting to pop a modal dialog instead of going to a new page. Also the ability to switch between accounts, or better yet, viewing 2 instances side by side, as right now there's a lot of horizontal dead space. I might cook up my own [i]frame html setup but too lazy lah.

On my phone, stock is passable. Don't want it to be too nice else I become addicted.

[-] zn@nexxis.online 1 points 2 years ago

there's lemoa, but it's not for windows apparently

[-] rakyat 1 points 2 years ago

So far all the clients I’ve heard of are for mobile, haven’t heard of any desktop apps yet.

[-] dukeGR4 5 points 2 years ago

caught up with my HS friend, and we talked about a local YB that hired a PR agency to manage his schedule.

Bro had everything planned - including what to say, where to show up, what to wear, what colour to wear, what hairstyle, what type of food to eat and what not.

The example he gave was : 12pm, wear this colour, this style of shirt and eat laksa at this very specific joint...

next time you see YBs eating at your local joint macam very relatable to your daily routine, it could very well be a choreographed act lol..

[-] cendawanita 3 points 2 years ago

I suspected but nice to have some anecdotal proof hehehehe

[-] ruk_n_rul 1 points 2 years ago

Normal people tengok wayang, these people became wayang. 24/7 pulak tu.

[-] passerby 5 points 2 years ago

Finally able to register to this - for some reason, can't register via Safari on my iPad

[-] Annoyed_Crabby 1 points 2 years ago

Welcome!

[-] cendawanita 4 points 2 years ago

Snap poll for the non-muslims:

Do/did you think raya is the Muslim new year? 😂 Asking because damn, after leaving school and the mandatory maal hijrah stuff, I don't think I've ever celebrated Awwal Muharram (today!!) in any big way. No wonder if ppl thought raya is new year.

[-] rom1215_ 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I think many are aware now, but it was indeed a widely held misconception that Raya is the New Year among the Chinese. In fact, even till now Raya is sometimes referred as Malay New Year (the literal translation of 馬來新年) in the Chinese speaking community, though not officially, but common enough to keep the misconception alive.

One of the reasons might be that for the Chinese people, the New Year (Spring Festival) is generally the most important - thus most greatly celebrated - occasion in a year. And as we observe how Raya is celebrated, especially in relative to other occasions, it's perhaps not too surprising that we assume the same it is for the Malay/Muslim as well.

Indeed some Chinese have the same misconception about Deepavali with the Hindus.

And I think in general we're doing better now, including in education - sad to say, but I don't remember my teachers (in SMJK) bothered to teach or clarify this with us when we're growing up (another reason the misunderstanding was rife) . But I think many Chinese are more respectful in this regard today.

[-] cendawanita 3 points 2 years ago

Oh no worries - I remember feeling so surprised... Then I observed how low-key ours is... 😂

[-] rom1215_ 2 points 2 years ago

Haha, I must say it's quite eye opening for me to see how different the culture is!

[-] weecious 3 points 2 years ago

sad to say, but I don't remember my teachers (in SMJK) bothered to teach or clarify this with us when we're growing up (another reason the misunderstanding was rife) .

So much this. Apparently some teachers don't encourage the students to ask questions. I was flipping out when I heard about this.

[-] dukeGR4 2 points 2 years ago

even in Sarawak, Gawai (which is technically Harvest festival) is known as Indigenous New Year 土著/拉子新年

[-] cendawanita 2 points 2 years ago

falls over

Dang guys, what isn't a new year in Malaysian Chinese lingo?

[-] Naomikho 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I only realized that yesterday when my Malay friends were talking about it. Heck one of my Malay friends didn't know as well, or he probably forgot about it as he grew up 😂

[-] weecious 3 points 2 years ago

Nope. But I did thought so when I was much younger, like in school.

[-] cendawanita 2 points 2 years ago

📝 aye that checks out. Tho once I had a hairdresser who thought that still lol

[-] Annoyed_Crabby 2 points 2 years ago

Is it not :o

Because to me chinese, cny is the biggest celebration and Raya Aidilfitri share very similar traits

Sorry me ignorant 🙈

[-] cendawanita 3 points 2 years ago

Congrats to you for your TIL then 😂

[-] DerpyPoint@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Is it true that you need to bribe immigration officers in the Pengkalan Hulu/Betong and BKH/Sadao checkpoints to cross the land borders?

[-] oppenMyHeimer 3 points 2 years ago

Spark club last night was absolutely packed. I've never seen club dancefloors in KL packed before midnight, and last night the dance floor was already crowded at 11+!

My dumb ass went thinking I was going to have some space to vibe on the dance floor lmao

[-] Annoyed_Crabby 2 points 2 years ago

Aaaaaaaand it's almost end of month. Time fly🥲

[-] yong1996 3 points 2 years ago

yea, so fast

[-] weecious 1 points 2 years ago

That's what she said

[-] zn@nexxis.online 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

not to mention it's the 1-month anniversary for the daily thread 🍾

[-] Annoyed_Crabby 2 points 2 years ago

And the site 🥳

[-] 2000Parsecs 1 points 2 years ago

Fuck life.

[-] Annoyed_Crabby 1 points 2 years ago

Hope your day getting better soon ( ･_･)ﾉ(._.`)

[-] dukeGR4 1 points 2 years ago

Singaporeans Chinese accent is so funny and cute lol. It sounds very kampung

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