I often offer to use a vibrator with a partner but they rarely take me up on it.
I really like making my partner cum and it's so much better at it
I should probably use the alt for this, but whatever, I'm a grownup. I really never liked the stimulation from a vibrator, it is just too intense to feel good, sort of irritating and I am not hypersensitive, either, ok with other direct stimulation, fingers, oral. So it's not a universal delight.
Among the women I've dated, a few didn't own any sex toys they admitted to me, a few admitted to having sex toys they wouldn't show me, a couple were open about having them but didn't want to masturbate in front of me, one would, and only one chick would do toys plus intercourse.
Damn man save some sexually repressed women for the rest of us
I haven't fucked my way through the entire American South.
As long as my woman has an earth-shattering orgasm, I don't care how she gets there.
If she get multiple earth shattering orgasms, it's even better.
If men had to jerk themselves off after piv just to cum, women would not take that well, just saying.
The "win" is figuring out what works for the lady, and there's not a specific manual for each woman.
Guys, in my experience, 60-70% of women need clitoral stimulation to make "it" happen. However, it's not the same playbook for every lady, and each lady generally has a set of reliable "plays" that work.
If you haven't already tried, introduce toys into the process - I have never had a partner regret it.
I first misread and thought she was using the toy on the guy.
Which can be emasculating in a fun way btw
See, this is so true!
Now someone tell my wife that using a fuck machine in my my ass and nipple clips is super reasonable!
Please and thank you.
What the fuck?
Hell no it's way fun.
Or was way fun. I remember it being fun. I don't want to have memories
Sex is not a team sport for most people. Just sayin'.
So your partner is the opposition in a 1 on 1 scenario?
Fuck yeah and I break their ankles and dunk on them every time
It's only ranked competitive sex for me. You casuals wouldn't understand.
Most of the women I've met treat sex like golf, where a man is the golfer and a woman is the course. Her job is to hold perfectly still while he does all the trying.
It certainly should be. Anyone who thinks of sex as not a team sport is just setting themselves up for mediocre experiences
No way I love being hypercompetitive. It's the one time I do better than my wife. I'm like oh you gave me one orgasm? That's cute enjoy your five
She's beautiful
Funny
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