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[-] chocrates@piefed.world 8 points 1 day ago

I often offer to use a vibrator with a partner but they rarely take me up on it.
I really like making my partner cum and it's so much better at it

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I should probably use the alt for this, but whatever, I'm a grownup. I really never liked the stimulation from a vibrator, it is just too intense to feel good, sort of irritating and I am not hypersensitive, either, ok with other direct stimulation, fingers, oral. So it's not a universal delight.

Among the women I've dated, a few didn't own any sex toys they admitted to me, a few admitted to having sex toys they wouldn't show me, a couple were open about having them but didn't want to masturbate in front of me, one would, and only one chick would do toys plus intercourse.

[-] Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Damn man save some sexually repressed women for the rest of us

I haven't fucked my way through the entire American South.

[-] Davel23@fedia.io 15 points 1 day ago

As long as my woman has an earth-shattering orgasm, I don't care how she gets there.

[-] BastingChemina@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 day ago

If she get multiple earth shattering orgasms, it's even better.

[-] minorkeys@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Do you care of you're not a meaningfull part of it?

[-] Speculater@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

I think being there while she does it is a turn on.

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[-] minorkeys@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

If men had to jerk themselves off after piv just to cum, women would not take that well, just saying.

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[-] madeinthebackseat@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

The "win" is figuring out what works for the lady, and there's not a specific manual for each woman.

Guys, in my experience, 60-70% of women need clitoral stimulation to make "it" happen. However, it's not the same playbook for every lady, and each lady generally has a set of reliable "plays" that work.

If you haven't already tried, introduce toys into the process - I have never had a partner regret it.

[-] Akasazh@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

I first misread and thought she was using the toy on the guy.

Which can be emasculating in a fun way btw

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[-] blargh513@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago

See, this is so true!

Now someone tell my wife that using a fuck machine in my my ass and nipple clips is super reasonable!

Please and thank you.

What the fuck?

Hell no it's way fun.

Or was way fun. I remember it being fun. I don't want to have memories

[-] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Sex is not a team sport for most people. Just sayin'.

[-] Bassman27@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

So your partner is the opposition in a 1 on 1 scenario?

[-] nondescripthandle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Fuck yeah and I break their ankles and dunk on them every time

[-] Jerkface@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

It's only ranked competitive sex for me. You casuals wouldn't understand.

Most of the women I've met treat sex like golf, where a man is the golfer and a woman is the course. Her job is to hold perfectly still while he does all the trying.

[-] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 day ago

It certainly should be. Anyone who thinks of sex as not a team sport is just setting themselves up for mediocre experiences

[-] CodingCarpenter@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

No way I love being hypercompetitive. It's the one time I do better than my wife. I'm like oh you gave me one orgasm? That's cute enjoy your five

[-] ZindaDil@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 day ago

She's beautiful

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