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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

This question came to mind when driving back & forth between California-Arizona where vehicle fuel prices have a $2 PER GALLON difference. (I love my diesel vehicle. Fight me.)

So (1) would I drive 5 hours inland to Arizona just to save $2 per gallon?

Or (2) Would I buy a shit-ton of gas cans & fill them up in Arizona then haul them back to California?

As destitute as I am, would I move to Arizona for all-around lower cost of living? (3)

(1) Um, no.

(2) Sounds like a clever idea but ultimately ridiculous for so many reasons. No.

(3) Stupidly & stubbornly, no, I haven't broken yet. I still love California too much to run inland away from this extortionately high cost of living.


BUT

I prefer to walk/run/bike rather than drive short distances.

Prefer DIY-ing or foregoing luxuries rather than paying for services I could do myself. Haircuts. Massages. Handyman repairs within my ability.

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[-] CentipedeFarrier@piefed.social 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I’m pretty broke and have been for most of my life, so I’m pretty willing to be inconvenienced. Only thing I have to my name is a very old house in need of substantial work I can’t afford to do, on a very small town lot, and a car that’s falling apart.

I keep my heat set to 60f/15.6c at most, which is well outside of my comfort zone (I prefer being too warm over too cold). I use heated mattress pads/blankets to make it bearable, as they cost exceptionally little to use round the clock for a month, around a dollar a month vs the several hundred per month my heat goes up when kept to a comfortable temp.

I grow as much of my own food as I can. I know people do the math and determine that home grown somehow costs just as much as store bought, so it’s only good as a hobby, and I genuinely don’t understand that calculation. I compost and mix compost into my garden soil and my food is basically free..? And I recently added a small flock of chickens that eat my plant scraps and food scraps, and their waste is great fertilizer. It’s a nice holistic system. I also have some plants like tomatoes and peppers that grow year-round in hydroponics, the small amount of electric and powder nutrients used to grow them costs far less than the food they produce. I’m working on expanding my hydro options to sell surplus to friends and family.

I use compressed sawdust pellets (like for pellet stoves or horse bedding) as cat litter. It’s basically the same thing as feline pine but it’s $7 for 40lbs, which is enough to completely toss and replace the litter about 10 times per bag, more in summer because I use less (takes longer to dry out so needs to be replaced faster anyway). The litter is compostable, so it goes into a special pile that gets used as yard/flower garden dirt. However this requires that I stir up the litter at least twice a day, to allow the urine to dry properly. Else it just reeks of ammonia.

All food scraps, whether cat food or human food, get saved for something. Scraps my chickens can’t/won’t eat, like raw carrots, onions, garlic, and celery, get turned into broth along with bones. After being turned into broth, the remaining material goes into my worm compost. Anything chivkens can eat, especially cat food my cats don’t eat, gets saved for them. Egg shells get saved (by everyone who gets eggs from me) and used as calcium supplement for them.

If I can build or make something, even poorly, I’ll do that before buying a thing (beer, bread, covey coop, chicken coop, shelves, etc.). If I can repurpose existing tools to do a thing I only need to do once, I probably will even if the task is far more frustrating as a result. I desperately wish we had tool library here so I could just borrow stuff. But no. And on this same sort of trajectory; I’ll do things manually rather than using gas or buying new tools. I inherited a ton of really high quality hand tools from my grandfather, and I use them quite a lot. I also shovel snow by hand rather than putting gas in my snowblower, unless we are expecting a blizzard.

I have more but this is already too long so ima just stop.

[-] laranis@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 months ago

You're my hero and I will be seeking your guidance in the post-apocalypse.

[-] Lemvi@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 2 months ago

I usually take my hourly wage and compare it to the inconvenience. For example, if that inconvenience takes about an hour of my life, but saves me more than my hourly wage, I take it. There are exceptions of course, for example if I am low on money.

[-] pahlimur@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

We do this comparison, with the added "will this save money" modification. My time outside of 40 hours per week can't make me more money unless OT is approved. So that time is worth $0/hr. If the actions i do during that time save me money, I try to do them. It massively increases the amount of money we have for vacations and other fun stuff.

I'm also undiagnosed hyper focused ADHD, so that may be why. My wife tells me I can slow down, but I absolutely cannot.

[-] Delphia@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

I'm the exact same especially the ADHD because it gives me another calculation to do "Building my own looks fun plus buying one is more expensive minus the chance of me getting bored half way through and wasting the initial investment. Hmmmm lets spend a little more and just get the thing premade.

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 3 points 2 months ago

Yesterday I transported a seven-foot long, 70# piece of furniture across town by bus.

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

How did the other people riding the bus feel about this LOL.

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 1 points 2 months ago

They were super nice! I was like, this bus is too full, I'll get the next one and five different people said "no!" and got up to make room. It was very sweet, real holiday spirit kinda stuff.

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago

That is nice.

One day a woman was mad at everyone for not giving up their seats for her as she had a stroller. It contained three cases of beer and a basket of laundry.

[-] alcibiades@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 months ago

lmao can you blame her though

[-] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Hell yeah!

I declare you president of this club.

👑

[-] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 3 points 2 months ago

How much do I dislike the inconvenience? Some types of inconvenience I'm very tolerant of, but others I'd rather pay the money.

Often times when it is discretionary, I choose to just skip it altogether. Like if I'm not willing to run out for fast food, I'm not going to use one of the delivery apps.

[-] Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

I'll use an office stapler to close a limb laceration before going anywhere near an emergency room because America is a fucking capitalist hellscape. So, moderate, I guess.

[-] clif@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

If you know anyone who works in nursing or similar, you can some times get medical grade staplers (and other semi specialty things) for free when they "expire" and need to be thrown out.

I've still got two staplers in my medical kit that expired in 2010. I assume it's the sterile rating that is no longer valid since it's a stapler. Haven't needed them yet...

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago

Super glue can fix some crazy cuts

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

That's what it was designed for tbh

[-] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 months ago

I almost never order snacks or fast food delivered, cheaper to walk to the store if I want it

[-] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 2 points 2 months ago

I think I have done it like twice when I was sick.

Expense aside, I find it useful for maintaining some level of discipline. If I can't be assed to get it myself, then I don't want it that much.

[-] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 months ago

i live in a garbage can

[-] spiffy_spaceman@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

I cut my own hair. Doesn't sound like an inconvenience, but in the summer our house has no AC, and you'd be surprised just how stuffy one person can make a bathroom in 30 mins. And my hair has mostly looked like shit for 25 years. (The local hair styling school charges $2 less than local salons, so it's not super cheap here.)

[-] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Yes haircuts are so expensive! Grateful I embraced a Pocahontas/ carefree Hawaiian girl hairstyle 30+ years ago. I NEVER cut my hair. It's just long & wavy & takes care of itself, and somehow never grows beyond waist-length 🤷🏼‍♀️

[-] M33@piefed.world 1 points 2 months ago

It depends on how much money you make, right ?

[-] viking@infosec.pub 1 points 2 months ago

I'll take a bus for 1h rather than pay a taxi to get someplace in 10 min to save $40.

[-] SlartyBartFast@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago

A lot, I've walked across a city rather than pay for a taxi

[-] Deestan@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago
[-] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago

Nice try but "inconvenience" cannot be measured numerically. We need anecdotes.

[-] Deestan@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

One time i eight'd to save money.

[-] ollie@pawb.social 0 points 2 months ago

i have been looking high and low for months in my local charity shops for a specific cd, that i very well could have bought online for a fairly reasonable price

[-] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago

Time is money. You deserve that CD. Just give in & buy it online already 😛

[-] ollie@pawb.social 1 points 2 months ago

i thought itd be more special to find it in person 😅

either way, theres a suspiciously CD case shaped object wrapped under the Christmas tree, so we shall see :3

[-] Asafum@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago

I live in a tiny garage "apartment" with only a washing machine, no dryer, and essentially "babies first refrigerator" too small to even keep a tub of ice cream in the freezer just so that I don't have to live paycheck to paycheck.

[-] LORDSMEGMA@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 months ago

Maybe try putting in the ice cream before the baby?

[-] Asafum@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Seriously? I have priorities man! I can do without the ice cream, but there's no way I'm going without a baby on ice. What kind of life is that!?

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